alright my boyfriend went to a party and slept over a bunch of girls got into a hotub naked and starting making out and ****. he got in also, although the other guys participated in sex games he says he didnt, im still angry/hurt out of my mind, he didnt call me afterwards and had no intention of telling me, i called him and went nuts. am i overreacting?
2007-02-19 01:48:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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Honestly, there's nothing you can do.
He CHOSE to go there. CHOSE to participate there.
CHOSE NOT to tell you.
He knows your reaction - any girl would be the same way.
What does that mean? He doesn't respect you and he will do what he wants to do.
Nothing you can do but accept it or move forward.
He'll NEVER ADMIT to something he has done - cheating-wise.
Good luck!
2007-02-19 02:17:06 · answer #1 · answered by HottNikkels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't get into a hot tub with naked women playing sex games if you love and respect your girlfriend, regardless if you do anything or not. So, yes, it is a form of cheating. Plus, he was planning on hiding it from you.
You didn't overreact. Any self respecting girl interested in a relationship with a guy who can respect her too would be livid. It sounds like he just isn't too worried about hurting you or your feelings and if he went this far this time, he may go further the next time.
If it were me, I might give him one more chance, but if anything ever happened like this again, I would be long gone. Sit down and have a talk with him, tell him how hurt you are, and find out just how much he feels you mean to him. Good Luck!
2007-02-19 11:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by Coach T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋