Singles & Dating - 16 February 2007

how do you tell i guy that you like him even though he asked you ou t and you said no? how do you try to make it so you guys can date without sounding like you're just playing games? i was scared of getting hurt again and now with talking to him i realized he would never hurt me. how do i tell him the way i am really feelilng?

2007-02-16 13:56:08 · 4 answers · asked by ~*Zaidens Mommy*~ 3

I have a crush. And I like him alot, but never had the guts to show it in any way. And then I realized he's been sending some of those signs that he doesn't like me. I've been feeling bad for a while, but then I got into this really embarrassing and awkward situation with him! So now I think i should get over him and find someone new. Am i making the right decision?

2007-02-16 13:55:26 · 8 answers · asked by boreo o 1

my boyfriend was trying to push me into it is it right

2007-02-16 13:54:57 · 34 answers · asked by xhollyx 1

One of my ex-boyfriends won't leave me alone and is reaching stalker level.I've told him many times to leave my the heck alone but he dosen't get it.How can I make him understand?

2007-02-16 13:54:25 · 23 answers · asked by Bellatrix/Jimmypants 2

2007-02-16 13:54:13 · 1 answers · asked by lacey5357 1

my ex and I were in a relationship which I know was not going to work in the long run ..., but I managed to stay in it ....My ex was having a very different point of view of life than I do , making her completely different from me, ..I couldn't follow her ...!! she was starting to be disapointed with the relationship .and I was deeply interested ...I tried everything I can , even trying to change at my own self at the great risk of losing myself and my personality ..but it really couldn't work ...I loved her very much, but she gave me a lot of trouble , after while in the relationship she started to flirt with another guy she was interested in, I didn't react violently on that ..I just warned her about that ..but, after a while I realize that I have to let her go with the other guy, because I know she will never happy with me and me with her ..that's why I didn't react ...That was my way to show her I loved her with or without me she has to be happy ..do u think it was bad from me ?

2007-02-16 13:53:58 · 5 answers · asked by bobby s 1

There are always different guy coming up to me and asking for my number. If you don't want to give them your number, what is a polite turn down?

2007-02-16 13:53:45 · 6 answers · asked by brkertffny 2

2007-02-16 13:53:29 · 3 answers · asked by beya 2

2007-02-16 13:53:00 · 19 answers · asked by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4

and i'm not saying she's cheating - a date which i set up for her to go on.

crazy?. the idea actaully orriginated by her. we went out for a year, broke up for a year, and got back. while mending we were very open about all of these wild fantasies we had. one of hers was that she's go out and explore her sexuality with somebody with alot of experience and then blow me away (to this day, i have a signifigant edge over her in the belt notch department).

once we stablized we stopped talking about most of it, and pretend like we never told each other. but we've often talked about this one, and it drives us both wild.

so a freind of mine from college is going to be in town until tuesday, and it seems perfect. he's 'cute' and a ladies man. he won't be in town for long and live far enough away not to be a long term threat. and he's agreed to my conditions (protection and no rough housing)

now i'm home, and she's out, and i have no plans. my mind is racing! what to do?

2007-02-16 13:52:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-16 13:50:49 · 15 answers · asked by XAngel EyesX 1

I met this guy through a friend of mine, but he lives in differen't state (colorado).. I happened to go to colorado and hung around with them, now im back to my home town and i just cant stop thinking about him, I don't know exactly what it is......?

2007-02-16 13:50:39 · 14 answers · asked by LuckyCharms 2

girls- have you asked a guy out before? was it hard? were you nervous? if you did was the first kiss nerve racking? were you scared the day you decided to ask him out? were freaking out the night before?
man-i bet the day i want to ask a guy out i am going to be soo nervous, i am going to stutter. or something really embaressing like i practice in front of the morrior and then i ask him and he says no and then i say to myself all that practicing for nothing.
so anyways was it nerveracking?

2007-02-16 13:50:14 · 8 answers · asked by alejandra611 2

and she seems to have nothing running in her head
(cause she mentions something that happened a few minutes ago)

does she like you or no ?

2007-02-16 13:49:24 · 17 answers · asked by Nick723 3

2007-02-16 13:48:36 · 3 answers · asked by Mz_ladykaykay 1

I went out with mine for 5 years...we've been broken up for over 4 years but I find myself thinking about him daily for the past week and dreaming about him. Does this happen to alot of people?

2007-02-16 13:46:19 · 8 answers · asked by Bo B 2

I got a package at my office and It was truly accidentally opened... It was a book called Why am I still Single.. Should
I be humiliated?? honestly. How should i play it off to make it sound like not a big deal that it was opened by my coworker (who was the only one that saw it). She told me right away what she did and apologized. Is this a big deal ... Please be totally honest. I need an unbiased opinion on this.

2007-02-16 13:44:43 · 8 answers · asked by ladynredisme 1

It didnt really work out, we basically completely ignored each other when it came to the phone and online over the break. Now when we come back to school, should i find evey chance to avoid seeing him or should i just say hi when i see him? Its just really awkward (becase of the silence) to be around him.

2007-02-16 13:44:36 · 6 answers · asked by Lorrane 2

Example:
I am seventeen years old. I have been bestfriends with this one girl for 3 years. But her mom never really let us hang out until this past summer. We live on the same block. At 6 o'clock my best friend calls me up and tells me her mom gave her permission and if I'll come over and watch a movie. I went. By the time the movie was over, it was 7:30. Then we went online and 8 PM her mom came in and told me "It's time for us to go to bed and time for you to leave" The thing is her daughter stays in my house all the time. My mom never told her anything like this EVER. When she is over, we always ask if she wants anything to eat and drink and always bring something because she may be shy and not ask. But one of the few times in 3 years I ever went to her house this happens!! Get this, whenever I went (I've only been to her house 3 times including this time) they never ask me if I want anything either.

2007-02-16 13:44:12 · 20 answers · asked by Mara D 1

This guy acts like he's really into me, like driving 1 1/2 hour to come to my house, cuddling for hours, being really sweet and affectionate, kissing me even after we are finished doing it, and we also hang out and watch TV and movies and go to Starbucks. He says he likes me and enjoys my company and that he really enjoys what we have. We've been seeing each other for about 3 months now. But he doesn't want to have a serious relationship, just wants to keep it casual like we've been doing. What do I do??? I find myself thinking about him almost all the time and really wanting more.

I don't know if I should keep seeing him or move on. I'm confused because people say he wouldn't cuddle with me if he didn't have feelings. They also say it will progress if we keep seeing each other, that he just needs to take things slow. I'm very confused! I need as much advice as possible about if you think he cares about me or not and if I should keep seeing him. Thanks

2007-02-16 13:43:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not that there is anything wrong with being gay. In fact, I wish more men were gay, since lack of competition is in my interest, and I can't blame lesbians for liking the same sex that I like, either.
It just happens that I'm heterosexual and don't want to make any women wonder about it....so please tell me why my friends tell me this poem is gay, so that I don't make her wonder!
How could I fix it? Is it beyond repair?

A jéwel box óf obsídian hólds God's bríghtest stár of líght,
But on this earth, all hope for her to shine on me is gone.
What chance have I to see such light in lives in worlds beyond?
A million suns would flare to life, then fade to endless night!

2007-02-16 13:42:39 · 14 answers · asked by A Box of Signs 4

im so quiet i really have nothing to say when anybody is like hi to me...i take things to seriosly....i can never carry a conversation no matter how much i try....lots people say ilook depressed and i kind of feel that way too i really dont have any friends...im afraid of getting judged...you can tell when im nervous because of my body movement...dont tell me to go to clubs or sports and stuff i wanna learn how to talk to people!.....i keep thinking im a boring person,although i am exellent at sports...i am very uncomferteble around people....people aLWAYS point out i am quiet and it fustrates me SSOOOOOO much....im a push over.....i keep losing focus of school and school projects because of my extreme quiet problem...im even quiet to the very few friends i have
i think they wanna be around other people because i am too quiet and boring like a library....Nope i know im not ugly in fact tons of people think im quite pretty but that really doesnt matter id rather trade being outgoing

2007-02-16 13:42:02 · 11 answers · asked by latina chick 1

.....girls to go out with me. I'm not popular..at all.... so how do i get girls to go out with me i havent had a girlfriend in about....5 YEARS i would not conider myself a loser so how do i get girls i dont care if she has a good aor bad body im not that type of guy i treat girls like they should be BETTER then myself is this a bad way to get a gf cause all the guys that are assholes get the girls plz help

2007-02-16 13:41:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

its only been like a week...im thinking i should take my boyfriend to meet my dad...hes met everyone in my family...except for my dad...how more long should i wait to show introduce him to my father? im 15 btw lol plz help!

2007-02-16 13:41:00 · 2 answers · asked by Sweetie07 2

what do you say should i get married under age

2007-02-16 13:40:58 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to know the horror stories. I've been on a few pretty bad dates myself! How did you try and get out of the date? Did the person still try and get a second date even though the first date was so bad?

2007-02-16 13:39:56 · 4 answers · asked by asiansmile 3

To not piss your lady off.. a lady that is most irritable, a gemini and has Bi Polar/ Manic Depression. I piss her off, get on her nerves quite often. When we aren't fighting and she's not blowing up in anger/ irritation with me, our relationship is great, how can I stop getting on her nerves? Shes always calling me an idiot, a$$, and telling me to shut up.. But hey, Its when I drive her insane.. I have a problem with always getting the last word in and I want it to stop, Seem like I am in a rut

2007-02-16 13:39:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am so confused!! My x-boyfriend and I broke up on new years day and I miss him. I talk to him alot and we still laugh and smile like we did when we went out. I really like him and I think he still likes me too but I'm afraid to ask him out. What should do?

2007-02-16 13:39:37 · 20 answers · asked by lollypop3 2

i like this kid and he started going out with this blonde girl who he has nothing in common with. i never really talk to him but i feel so depressed i feel like im not good enough for anyone. i really like him i guess but i will never be blonde and ditzy like her. i need help getting over this any tips?

2007-02-16 13:39:21 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2

so this guy i was dating, whom i fell in love with, just broke it off about 2 weeks ago, because he started falling for another girl... then his best friend was there for me for the whole week after it happened (and was also actually the one to tell me about the other girl) and then after that week his best friend told me that HE really liked me A LOT... but i told him i didn't feel the same way, and he knew i didn't because he kept always saying stuff like: i know you don't feel the same way... and everything like that. so then he stopped talking to me the next week, and now just last night he started talking to me.. and he is like how you doing babe? and i thought i have made it clear to him, and thought i was done with this! I don't know what to do because i have told him i just want to be friends, but he keeps trying for some reason... why does he keep trying if he himself admits it will probably not work..? what should i do? i've already told him every possible thing i could think

2007-02-16 13:39:14 · 8 answers · asked by coolio 4