my boyfriend was trying to push me into it is it right
2007-02-16 13:54:57 · 34 answers · asked by xhollyx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hell no! first of all, it's illegal, 2nd if he's over 16 he could go to prison for rape, 3rd, your not properly developed yet, so it's easier for you to catch STI's and stuff, and 4th you shouldn't be with him if he pressures you into sex! i mean, think about whether he's the right guy, and if you think he is, then see if he'll wait, if you have doubts, then i'm sorry, it's harsh but you should find someone who treats you with a lot more respect.
Hope you do the right thing
xxx
2007-02-17 02:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by RAWR♥™ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way is it OK to have sex at 12 it would destroy me if my daughter was sleeping with someone at teat age if Ur bf is pushing u in2 it he needs a slap to be honest never get pushed in to anything you don t want to do you should not be worrying about that sort of thing at your age and if your bf is pushing for it it obviously means you already know the answer to your question and that is no you will know when you are ready don't rush into it and concentrate on being a child i know that sounds patronising but its right
2007-02-16 14:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is, should your boyfriend be pushing you into something, regardless of what it is?
I think the indisputable answer to that is a resounding "NO!"
It is not the sex that is the issue. Do that when YOU feel you are ready, not when your boyfriend does, nor the moralising types you get on here. At your age you are probably not ready, but that's your choice in my opinion.
Dump your boyfriend though - do you really want to be with someone who tries to pressure you for their own selfish gains?
2007-02-16 14:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by AlexChappel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no. dont take this weird but im almost 20 and im still a virgin. what i have learned is that guys treat you better when they find out that you have respect for yourself and didnt give in to soon to just any guy that you were with. pluse your only 12, if you do it now and you leave your boyfriend you might not think it was worth it do lose your virginty at such a young age.
2007-02-16 15:36:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most certainly not dont let him push you into anything and at 12 years of age sex is defiantley not for you. You have a life time ahead of you for growing up
2007-02-20 09:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. NO, NO, NO, NONONONONO.
Do NOT do it. It is NOT right. You are only 12 years old. I'm almost 16, and I'm not even thinking about sex right now, and trust me, I could get it if I wanted it.
Think about you friends asking you if you're a virgin, and you replying, "no, I've lost my virginity when I was 12." I'd be embarrased to be around you, and I'd probably think of you as a skank, no offense.
Just wait. You'll know when you're ready. You won't have any doubt.
2007-02-16 14:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by LIVE FREE 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If your boyfriend respected you he would not even ask for sex much less PRESSURE you into having sex. Find a better boyfriend with the same values that you have.
2007-02-16 14:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by Pamela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no, u'll regret it for sure if u do it that young, i lost mine at 17 and wish i had waited longer, u can be really young and naive and think ur all grown up to take such a desicion to have sex but ur not, ur still young, and enjoy ur youth while u can and dump that boyfriend trying to have sex with u. u deserve someone more understanding. and sex ain't everything.
2007-02-17 02:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by DaRkAnGeL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest...No...as you asked a question, you have a doubt, then...No..if he gets found out, JAIL, he will be branded a Rapist...you might get pregnant, do you think you are mature enough to bring up a child, for YOU to decide, you might be doing it alone...there are lots of ways to give each other sexual pleasure without risking those things...you have about 70 years left to live, why spoil it now, if hes serious he will wait, if he wont, then think long and hard, is he the right guy?...
2007-02-16 14:20:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO that is not right!
tell your boyfriend to BACK OFF - why have you got a boyfriend at 12??!?!?! your still a child!!!!
if he is over 16 you can report him to the police!!!!
2007-02-16 20:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by Jemmax 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋