my ex and I were in a relationship which I know was not going to work in the long run ..., but I managed to stay in it ....My ex was having a very different point of view of life than I do , making her completely different from me, ..I couldn't follow her ...!! she was starting to be disapointed with the relationship .and I was deeply interested ...I tried everything I can , even trying to change at my own self at the great risk of losing myself and my personality ..but it really couldn't work ...I loved her very much, but she gave me a lot of trouble , after while in the relationship she started to flirt with another guy she was interested in, I didn't react violently on that ..I just warned her about that ..but, after a while I realize that I have to let her go with the other guy, because I know she will never happy with me and me with her ..that's why I didn't react ...That was my way to show her I loved her with or without me she has to be happy ..do u think it was bad from me ?
2007-02-16 13:53:58 · 5 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, i think you did the right thing. It was a smart move to let her go knowing you love her but she is bad for you. Not a lot of people have the courage to do that. They will usually stay in the relationship knowing it's unhealthy for them, then later realize they wasted their time. You should give yourself a pat on the back. Now, you are free to go find a better girl for yourself. I'm sure love will happen for you again, just make sure you take some time off till you feel your ready to move on & that you don't have feelings for your ex-girlfriend anymore. The right girl will come along at the right time. GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-16 14:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea im a woman so i have done that before. then i thought i was over him and i wasnt and now we are just friends. but i cant do anything about it and i know that me and him are never going to be able to have what we did a while ago. so now all i can do is just keep my mouth shut and stay his friend because it is better than not talking to him at all....
and no i dont think that it was bad because you actuallydid something that was worth it. gosh i wish there were more guys like you in the world
2007-02-16 13:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was a mature and unselfish thing to do. Too bad your g/f doesn't see how special you are. It's her loss, you'll find someone much more deserving in due time.
2007-02-16 14:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by icu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You behaved as a true man should.
You loved her, and yourself, enough to let her go and dissolve the relationship.
You should always be true to yourself; you cannot change who you are. And when you tried to change who you are, it still wasn't enough for her.
Know that your special someone is out there somewhere, waiting to meet you and love you for who you are, not who you will change to be for them.
2007-02-16 13:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by theromanesquegoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard, but it's also necessary. I've had to do the same, recently. I know it sucks, but consider it one page turned, and start reading the next one. Or better yet, write your own next page.
2007-02-16 13:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋