what do you say should i get married under age
2007-02-16 13:40:58 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely NOT.
2007-02-16 13:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. It isn't really a smart idea to get married under the age of 18. Most likely, the marriage won't work.
2007-02-16 13:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by em<3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you need to ask yourself why are you getting married? Is it because you are being pressured or because you are absolutely positive this is the person to whom you want to spend the rest of your life with...(and that is a long time Hun). Never let anyone pressure you into a permanent situation like this..Once you do .. there is no turning back..dig down deep first and find your reasoning's first..if it is for unconditional true love (which is hard to find these days) then I'll be the first to congradulate you on your wedding..just think before you leap....best wishes!!!
2007-02-16 13:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by Judy Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you live in another country where something like that is normal; But even so, getting married while you are underage should be a big no no.
I believe that people shouldn't even consider marriage until they are at least 19 or 20.
2007-02-16 13:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why you are getting married... if you love this person and know you are gonna spend the est of your life with only this person... go for it, as long as your parents consent. But know that alot of people who get married young end up with divorce because they were not ready to be with only that person and some even feel that they have missed out on alot of things in life. Whatever you decide I wish you lots and lots of luck!!
2007-02-16 13:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its your choice. You CAN but then if you do, you might have children. That would be one of the many problems. You could be like 17 and have children. That wouldn't be so good..My young friend's mom had her at 14, and now she's still trying to pass college. Then again, you wouldn't wanna get married when you're like 40....If you like that person, I guess that would work? Well, hopes that helps.
2007-02-16 13:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by (: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the incredibly high divorce rate, an underage marriage only guarantees that you will have at least one ex spouse. Unless there are children involved that need to be protected with a legal document, I would NOT marry underage.
2007-02-16 13:45:38 · answer #7 · answered by pleeks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How young are you? Are you old enough to support a family? Are you completely and utterly in love? What does your family think? There is a lot of missing information here....I dont know how to answer such a broad question. The answer is always different for different people.
2007-02-16 13:45:00 · answer #8 · answered by tessybell83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! What's the point? If she loves you and you love her, what's the rush? She'll still be there in a few years. Just enjoy you freedom and stop trying to waste your youth and (assumed) beauty on grown up pursuits. You'll only have these years once.
2007-02-16 15:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by klg2k2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of young people, whether they realize it or not, end up getting married just so they can do the horizontal samba without feeling guilty about it.
I dunno if you think condoms are evil, but how about brining a child into the world when you're too young to be ready?
Well, God gave you a brain, so use it!
2007-02-16 13:46:30 · answer #10 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...but that's entirely up to you. You asked my opinion and it's no. If you're underage your too young to experience life and the freedom that comes of being of age. 18..your able to come and go, be your own boss, date other women/men and make your own decisions..so give it time. If you love that person and they truly love you, it will be there when you come of age.
2007-02-16 13:45:21 · answer #11 · answered by Betty Boop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋