I met this guy through a friend of mine, but he lives in differen't state (colorado).. I happened to go to colorado and hung around with them, now im back to my home town and i just cant stop thinking about him, I don't know exactly what it is......?
2007-02-16 13:50:39 · 14 answers · asked by LuckyCharms 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's love!
Of course there's such a thing as love at first sight! Bear with me, it's a long answer.
Love at first sight is real. Because true love is from God. I'm a Christian, I believe in God! And for that reason I believe that there is love at first sight. God sometimes maybe lets people (like me) see right away who He intended them to love and marry.
Love is different with everyone because we are all different! You can't describe true love for anyone! Everyone's experience of loving or being in love is totally unique. Because we area all unique!
I am so tired of the people that say smugly, "i believe in lust at first sight" because they don't know. I don't have problems with lust, and I have experienced that feeling of "wow, look, there he is, the guy I was created for". I just looked at his eyes from the side and I got that feeling. I wasn't looking at his body at all.
Please believe me- that even if it hasn't happened to you, or never will, it is POSSIBLE
Please do not listen to these other people. Although they mean well, I know personally that there can be real, true, lasting love (not LUST or INFATUATION! Boy am I sick of those dumb words! People just use them to sound grownup and wierd and fancy shmancy! {not to "dis" you other folks, but that's what it seems like to me :)} at first meeting- and yes, even at first sight.
As to what it feels like... everyone is totally different. If you think you are in love, and you love someone very much, more than any one else, than you ARE in love- for the time being. You may, who knows, some day, find someone else who you will be able to love even more. Not because you didn't love the first one- you did, as much as you could at the time. But each new person you fall in love with you seem to be able to love more.
Who can say whether we are all in love a dozen times in our life, or if we only "really" love one of those people, or if we never "truly" loved any of them?
Love is different for every person, at every different time. Sometimes it makes you sad, sometime it makes you happy, sometime insecure, sometimes confident. No one knows. But if you think you're in love, then tell yourself you are and go with your emotions, whether you become mournfully melancholy or exuberantly happy. There is nothing sweeter than feeling something deeply and telling yourself you're in love, whether it's for an hour or a lifetime- or eternity.
I fell in love from first sight with someone I have only met twice in the past two years I still am. For many reasons in a long story, we can't contact each other, nor do we "date" so there isn't a questions of all that "faithfulness" junk. But I knew at the first second that I was made for him and someday God will see we marry and live happily ever after. Sometime I will type up the whole story and post it on every "love at first sight" page and question and blog in the whole wide internet.
Again, I am not saying that love at first sight is the only right kind of love. Maybe you will hate the person you eventually fall in love with! Maybe it will take you years to gradually love them! Who knows? I am not saying that it is the only true kind of love. With some people, it may take a while to fall in love with their soulmate. But love at first sight is so very possible! Sometimes the good Lord is kind enough to show you right away. Like he showed me.
The moment I saw him standing there, I knew all about him. His character- how kind and sweet he was, how helpful and patient. And don't say I was judging a book by its cover. Later in the day I met up with him again and talked to him for five hours at that wedding reception. And my first impression- that split second thought of "this is who I was created for and am meant to marry" was strengthened. And he is in my every thought and dream. I don't give a passing thought or glance to anyone else- it's just out of the question. I’ve only seen him only 3 times over the years. It’s been so long. But I still love him! I do! It’s real!
I fell in love when I was only 13. But that’s how old Juliet was, and it was love at first sight and no one questions her! No one says “Oh, Juliet was so dumb, she didn’t REALLY love romeo, she just killed herself because she THOUGHT she did”. Why should people say that about me?
There is love at first sight.
Not lust.
Not infatuation.
Not a crush.
Not a passing attraction.
Real, true, lasting, beautiful, perfect love.
Believe!
2007-02-16 15:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by nemo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ther is love at first sight. I met this chick 2+ years ago and from the moment I saw her pic I was in love with her...though she never loved me back.
But at the end of January of this year ..I had put a pic of myself on Myspace ..and this girl was looking through profiles and wrote me a letter telling me how hot i was and she just had to say hi. She told me she loved me like 2 days later...and ask me to marry her after 5 days !!!! ...So yes there is love at first sight.
2007-02-16 14:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that there is such a thing as love at first sight, but a lot of the time it's just lust at first sight.
2007-02-16 13:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by em<3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i believe in love at first sight and if u cant stop thinking of him then u either have alot of lust for them or u love him so my advice is to talk more or one of u move to the same location as the other not live together but be in a relationship try and work itout u know
2007-02-16 14:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by L.A. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exactly what it is is Heart ache on the way unless you are going to move there or him move to where you are. Yes we all fall in love first sight just small percent of love OK guys feel Lust first. Then we build on it if we are smart. If not then you get heart ache. Good luck
2007-02-16 14:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by Bruce M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are the only ones who get to decide whether a relationship is "love" or not. "Love" is a girl word.
We can try to use it, but you always correct us!
So, if the woman feels like it's love, it's love, whether at first sight or after years of friendship. If she loves a guy who hates her, it's love. If a guy is madly in love with her but he doesn't quite arouse her enough, then there is NO love involved at ALL!
2007-02-16 13:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe there is definitely love at first sight. your situation is kindof different from just like seeing some random person and knowing immediately they are something worth pursuing though.. since you met him through your friend. basically you are really crushing on this guy.... and want to have more with him because you are starting to really like him and have feelings for him. i would start talking more to him if you could... gain a relationship... good luck! :)
2007-02-16 13:57:13 · answer #7 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I loved this guy in high school and I thought he was the one.Well we did get together for a short time but he meet another friend of mine and you know He is with her.I still think about him from time to time.I feel sad but that is life I Guss.
2007-02-16 13:57:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its just a crush. You know, I dont think you can ever know if its love at first site. You'll know in time, thats the solution.
2007-02-16 13:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by Lizzie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is such a thing defferz anything is possible to do with love, talk to him he may be the wun!
2007-02-16 13:55:09 · answer #10 · answered by cutieloz2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋