and i'm not saying she's cheating - a date which i set up for her to go on.
crazy?. the idea actaully orriginated by her. we went out for a year, broke up for a year, and got back. while mending we were very open about all of these wild fantasies we had. one of hers was that she's go out and explore her sexuality with somebody with alot of experience and then blow me away (to this day, i have a signifigant edge over her in the belt notch department).
once we stablized we stopped talking about most of it, and pretend like we never told each other. but we've often talked about this one, and it drives us both wild.
so a freind of mine from college is going to be in town until tuesday, and it seems perfect. he's 'cute' and a ladies man. he won't be in town for long and live far enough away not to be a long term threat. and he's agreed to my conditions (protection and no rough housing)
now i'm home, and she's out, and i have no plans. my mind is racing! what to do?
2007-02-16 13:52:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What happens when you throw an extra ingredient into the mix? When you go to bake it up, it doesnt come out tasting right. Speaking from experience, when, even though it was a shared "fantasy" of both of you, for whatever time remains in your relationship (and I guarauntee you that the clock is ticking now) you both will always be wondering about the other. You will always wonder if she liked it more with him than you, she will always wonder if you are wondering, and round and round you will go until its game over.
Why couldnt you just both go out to a strip club together, or rent some fun "educational" porn from the local "toy" store and discover new fun things together? It is soooo much more fun that way than to go outside the bounds of your relationship to "gain more experience to blow each other away."
A relationship is all about discovering the "freak within" together, be the players in your kinky fantasies together, etc. You both have made a BIG mistake in agreeing to this arrangement. I am so sorry for what you are both about to go through, it will not be pretty. I speak this from personal experience and from the bottom of my heart.
Good luck to the both of you, and as for your spare time, either go after her in a wild romantic scene and at least attempt to salvage this before it goes beyond the point of no return, or go out somewhere with other friends and prepare yourself to just let this go and move on with your life with someone else that in a relationship you will both feel more secure with just each other. This just seems too much in a way like Indecent Proposal to me.
2007-02-16 14:08:09 · answer #1 · answered by buckstopshere27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's evident that you don't have any respect for yourself OR your girlfriend. To make an arrangement with a college friend to be with her and to use protection, says a lot about you AND the girl if she agrees to this. It's time you both grew up, fella, and live a decent life. Wonder what both your parents would think if they knew what you both were up to. One thing for sure ~~I'm glad that I'm neither your parent or hers. I'll refrain from telling you how I'd handle all this, if I were.
2007-02-16 14:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. women do no longer only initiate relationship after a breakup till the relationship became into already over for some weeks. You have been already historic previous a jointly as in the past. She became into only staying with you till she had yet another guy she wanted to be with. circulate on dude.
2016-11-23 14:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Couldn't you guys roll play or something? You can teach her things your self if your so "experienced". Why would you want to hook her up with someone let alone one of your friends? I think that was a REALLY bad idea. Now your gonna always have that in your mind. I hope things work out for you.
2007-02-16 14:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by gands06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that is so weird that you set up a date for your girlfriend anyway just uhh sit there and play video games watch T.V. and wait for her to call
2007-02-16 13:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean what to do? You put yourself in this predicament by sending her out with someone "cute", y'all are whack.
2007-02-16 13:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by bigern1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's on a date with another guy, open a beer and jerk yourself off I guess....
2007-02-16 14:02:14 · answer #7 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't forget to eat at the "Y" went she gets home!
2007-02-16 14:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yours is a strange relationship.
2007-02-16 13:57:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋