i like this kid and he started going out with this blonde girl who he has nothing in common with. i never really talk to him but i feel so depressed i feel like im not good enough for anyone. i really like him i guess but i will never be blonde and ditzy like her. i need help getting over this any tips?
2007-02-16 13:39:21 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YEa don't worry about it when he gets tired of her you can jump on the chance. But I would move on and maybe find someone who will treat you good. But always if you still like him keep an ear open just in case.
2007-02-16 13:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first: Don't think you're never good enough. You are; others just don't know it. Second: Do your own thing. Suppose you go out with another guy; at the very least, you'll be doing something on your own, which is a learning experience, and not to be sneezed at. At the best, you'll make him jealous; however, don't expect him to come running! Still, sometimes it's just easier to get over something like that and do things in your own way, you know?
2007-02-16 21:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get over this...Eat some ice cream, waste a million hours on myspace making REAL friends (lol yea right), listen to hard core gangster rap, have a chat w/ your best guy friend, etc the possibilities are endless!
2007-02-16 21:46:59 · answer #3 · answered by adklsjfklsdj 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
realize you were attracted to him, but thats not love... you are who you are... and seek a man who is also attracted to you... why waste time trying to be like anyone... when obviously your not... realize there has to be a guy out there for you... dont feel lik ethere isn't, show off the trait you think are your best see, whos a taker, and if your attracted to him... next time don't allow yourself to get your hopes up so fast, when your not even dating...
good luck stay positive, go for guys who respect you, for YOU!!!
2007-02-16 21:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by todd w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and get over it! it is his loss and hopefully your gain. And for the blond be a friend if you can but don't discredit her. There is much to gain in life so be the bigger person.
2007-02-16 21:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by Fresh choice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt with 10 guys while he's somewhere near. start giving ur best guy friend hugs every morning. trust me it works lol
2007-02-16 22:20:55 · answer #6 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that he might not have realized that he doesn't like her. Then again, he might not be smart enough to realize that...
2007-02-16 21:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋