GIRLS What is the best way?

Question

To not piss your lady off.. a lady that is most irritable, a gemini and has Bi Polar/ Manic Depression. I piss her off, get on her nerves quite often. When we aren't fighting and she's not blowing up in anger/ irritation with me, our relationship is great, how can I stop getting on her nerves? Shes always calling me an idiot, a$$, and telling me to shut up.. But hey, Its when I drive her insane.. I have a problem with always getting the last word in and I want it to stop, Seem like I am in a rut

And please? If you could answer the question I have before this.. I would dearly appreciate it

Answer 1

You sound really sweet and caring. Any girl would be lucky to have you:))

You say your gf has Bipolar.. Having bi polar is really hard because you are not in control of your emotions.. Sometimes you can be really high / Other times really down and irritable for no reason. And there is not much you can do about it..

It is best to have a conversation with your girlfriend when she isn't in a depressive cycle about how you feel, and what you should do to help her. She knows her emotions best..and can tell you what to do , to avoid triggering her. I'm sure she would be happy that you care enough to want to understand her, and support her. And be happy to help you...




I think at the moment when she is irritable..the best thing you can do is give her space ,yet be there for her (cos depression can be lonely) Which is a really hard juggling act!!

'always getting the last word' I think you should avoid this when she is in a 'mood'.. because her depression can make her paranoid and anything you say will sound bad. Just bite your lip...and leave it for the moment you can talk better when you both calm down. Last words now just exasperate the situation..




As to making up.. Just say something nice/ do something nice..like make her cup of tea..buy some flowers.. That would make any girl smile. Don't beg because that sounds needy and puts girls off. Having read your other questions..You really must STOP apologizing..because you are putting her of. She knows you want to make up. Let her come to you. She will.



I hope you sort things out with your girlfriend. I'm sure you will:) But be careful because you sound like a nice guy and don't let yourself be walked all over or taken advantage of..
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Answer 2

dude like i said befor you diserve way more than this chick!
no girl should ever say shut up unless its a tease tease situation