Singles & Dating - 14 February 2007

I met this guy in college.We have been talking online and in person ever since the first week.The first night we ever talked, he asked me out.I turned him down saying that I didn't even know who he was, which was true.He has since asked me out 2wice.Both times w/ rejections b/c I was not sure I wanted to be in a relationship.Since then, we have both been w/ other people, but have been drawn back to each other.He's got long stringy black hair, tattoos, & a tounge ring.he drinks/smokes.Hes very shy, but is comfortable w/ me. We recently got into a fight. We didn't talk 4 2 weeks, & then made up. 3 nights ago, he told me that he missed "us" & that he likes to think about times we had. I can also always tell that he is very jealous of every guy that talks to me. 2night he said he was going to ask a girl out & i said good for him & then said i was also going to be w/ another guy 2night 2. he got mad & said "F you then F you"What does this mean?Did he have a diff. girl or does he want me?

2007-02-14 15:11:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

im usually not shy and i just have a feeling about her.. something inside me i can't explain .. how do i get the courage to talk to her because im really shy.. but usually im not shy of any girl.. why is this? and how do i talk to her?

2007-02-14 15:11:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm trying to do something really romantic and sweet for my boyfriend on saturday...during the day, not sexual, but not too expensive. What can I do?

He is into huntin, fishin, and football....any ideas?.....

2007-02-14 15:11:42 · 1 answers · asked by smurf0314 1

2007-02-14 15:11:01 · 6 answers · asked by 2fitornot2fit 3

what would be the best way to tell a guy that you have a friends with benefits relationship with that you like them more than that?

2007-02-14 15:10:23 · 3 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1

last night something fairly bad happened to me that i thought my bf should know my friend cody came over and we were home alone (nothing, i repeat NOTHING like that happened)he needed to use my computer to finish a homework assignment and my mom knew he was coming over well when he was finished he said "thanks" and kissed me on the cheek(he had no idea i had a bf) well i think he wanted me to take it further but i just looked at him and he knew something was wrong he touched my cheek lightly and said "devin whats wrong uve liked me since we met" i told him i know but now i have a bf and for now ur on the friend level and nothing more im sry, well thats when his step dad pulled up in my driveway and he hugged me and said im sry i didnt know, well now he feels really bad and i told my bf i thought he should know and i think my bf is mad at me i didnt get to explain because he had to go so now what should i do i didnt enjoy "cheating" and i think my bf is mad at me what should i do?
its happened before but the guys didnt get anywhere they were trying to force me and i pushed them off and they got their a** kicked

2007-02-14 15:10:06 · 15 answers · asked by female football player 1

I was on msn today, and I wrote something as my quote and I wanna know what you guys think. My ex-boyfriend was also online, he was my first boyfriend and first kiss. We dated for a short time last yea,r he was 25 and I was 20. It never went past kissing cuz he knew I'm saving sex for marriage. NEWAYS, I put as my msn quote: "Oh my, NO I don't think so. I belong to me, I don't belong to you, my heart is my possession, I'll be my own reflection". This quote doesn't really refer to anyone, I just felt like putting up an anti-love quote. Will my ex think that I was dating someone & that the guy hurt me so I dumped him? I know this sounds crazy but I think the 2nd part of the quote is empowering. What is he thinking? I guess I just wanted him to maybe think I was saying no to a boy & being independent. BTW, I know my ex reads my quotes cuz once I put as my quote that I was packing and he asked me (right away) where was I going.

2007-02-14 15:09:44 · 1 answers · asked by Hottie 1

anyway he seems really distant and when I say I miss you really bad he seems to be only half listening and seems really distracted, I am wondering why he seems like he dosent miss me as much as I miss him, He will be gone for 2 weeks at a time when he gets started, I am a little worried should I be?

2007-02-14 15:09:37 · 3 answers · asked by BLUE EYES 1

I have a friend whose boyfriend does sum crazy things!!! He treats her like she's nothing and he feels that he does nothing wrong, as soon as she does something, he says she's. What is about men that they feel that they should get away with anything!!!!

2007-02-14 15:09:33 · 7 answers · asked by T 3

i know this girl and i like her yea we talk
i make her laugh even if the jokes was not funny she slaps me on the arm she even looks me in the eyes when we talk. I sometimes c her looking at me my friend says he thinks she likes me because everytime she c me she has a smile on her face. I also noticed when i was talking to another friend which is a girl she stood between me and her until i started telling her a story
that happen which they both laughed but she i think tried to out laugh the other girl. OK IF I TELL HER I LIKE HER AND SHE DOES NOT SAY ANYTHING IS THAT GOOD OR BAD?

2007-02-14 15:08:29 · 13 answers · asked by Joe 1

2007-02-14 15:07:35 · 11 answers · asked by rajee g 1

You fall in love with someone… how does that process happen step by step?

2007-02-14 15:06:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so this guy chris came over and brought is cousin...... and his cousin was all wow ur short....and im like yeah im 5'1 and he started laughing and said ur only 3 inchs taller than a midget...... it kinda hurt :(

2007-02-14 15:06:19 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

The first girl i met because of my grandma. she live in the community she lives in. shes a bit spoiled. even if shes a prep shes really cute naturally and is very nice. she acts quite a bit nicer around me as apposed to other people so thats a bit of a give away. the second girl is in my 4th period. i never really noticed it but shes quite cute too. we don't really talk and i'm usually a wise guy. but one day because of a certain mood i was able to talk to her. recently ive been talking more to girls since im single. Our desks face each others. Then 2 days ago she took her foot and put it on my lower shin. OK.... maybe she did it by mistake. but she held it there and she has been putting her feet on mine but doesnt really talk to me since her friend is at the table and doesnt really show any signs shes doing it. she did it yesterday and today too. although i dont know what social type she is, i know shes quite smart but not nerdy. I like both girls as much, which should i ask out?

2007-02-14 15:06:12 · 6 answers · asked by shibidibidingdong 1

Guys, do you prefer make-up, no make-up or a little but not enough to notice on girls?

2007-02-14 15:04:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I thought it was a good thing but my friends told me it was awful.

2007-02-14 15:03:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay... so I love this kid. He's 20, I'm 20, and we have been dating for a year and three months. He seems to really, really love me, and I love him in return... but here's a little problem.

He gets me nothing for my birthday. I bought him clothes. He gets me SOCKS for Christmas... not even wrapped, still in their plastic bag. I spent over 70 dollars on him. Last Valentines Day I had to hide all the things I bought from him because he only bought me a cheap flower and didn't do anything the rest of the day. He apologized and said he'd make up for it next year... this year, he wrote me a note. I went all out... again. What an idiot.

What am I supposed to think of this? I mean, I know money is NO object, and I know we're both college students, but shouldn't he care more? Other than this, our relationship is amazing... I know he cares about me. It's just he seems to think he doesn't have to do anything "special" for me. It bothers me... Help? And yes, I did talk to him about it...

2007-02-14 15:03:39 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

How long should you be dating someone to ask them to marry you. I've seen people wait years and I've seen people wait only months. And theres another factor. I'm 17 and shes 16.

2007-02-14 15:03:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

does the same apply for dudes? cuz i truely belive this because my best friend is EXACTLY Like my daddy and to me, daddy is the awesomest person in the whole world. My best friend is sweet, funny, nice, goofy, childish, and acts immature in a playful way.. and i love him to death for it! he's my best friend! and thats exactly like daddy. All the guys i've ever liked were exactly like him and daddy.. in looks as well! they are all tall and have blue eyes... i dont know why.. i have no eye color preference, but they all ended up having blue eyes.

i was wondering if it was the same because my best friend i mentioned above has a mom who is a total B and all his girlfriends are rude and bitchy!!! They all have serious trust and jealousy issues as well... just like his mom.

2007-02-14 15:02:18 · 8 answers · asked by janna w 2

I have been seeing this girl for 4 months now and through our relationship none of us ever been completely happy... However, I want to have a serious relationship, while she wants to have me around to make love with. We have never made complete love, like had sex, but we accomplished other stuffs. Of course if we can have sex if we want to. It is not problem at all, but she doesn't want to get serious with me. Today I told her I need to have a serious relationship with her and she told me she cannot offer me that... I asked her what would should suggest me to do, and this was what she said, " Either we stay as close friends or we don't see each other anymore."

Ok. I made up my mind to move on. I'm not into this bull crap with her. But the thing is that I never saw her today on Valentine's day because of snow prevention. My question is: Should I still give her the Valentine's gift? I have a rose, teddy and two boxes of chocolates. It is going to be painful.

2007-02-14 15:02:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband really likes it when I kiss his ear, but complains about wet it gets afterwards. Any ideas how to stop this? Its a part of a foreplay and I wouldnt want to stop...any tips or tricks..ideas? I could also look for other ideas of what to do beside his ear (trust me, thats not the only thing I work for)

so..any ideas?

2007-02-14 15:01:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. We had one bad break up and got back together. Well we had plans this weekend and I have a baby shower on saturday so he didn't want to see eachother. Then we talked and compromised so we could hang out. Well I just got off the phone with him and now he wants to cancel Friday and Saturday. He got all mad on the phone and told me that I was getting on his nerves and I was even talking I was waiting for him to play his game. He hung up and thats where it ended. He gets in mood swings alot, and cancles plans once in a while. I don't know what to do about this. Am I over reacting about his mood swings or is there really a problem here? Please help!

2007-02-14 15:00:12 · 7 answers · asked by KAB128 1

I know that this question does not belong in this category but this is the forum I receive the most answers from.

2007-02-14 14:59:36 · 8 answers · asked by tosha38401 3

2007-02-14 14:59:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do i say something to a girl i like? i am really speechless when i'm near girls, and especially near her.

Please dont give me answers like "just go and do it" because its easier to say than do. Not in my case though ;)

Detailed answer = 10 pts!

2007-02-14 14:59:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this secretary at work pretty well as she used to date my college roommate. So she shares a lot with me even though we are both married now. We went for a walk during lunch and I told her that she looked good in the skirt she was wearing. She thanked me and said she loved skirt days at work because it was easier to play with herself under her desk. I said for real? And she said yeah, she does it a couple of times during the day when things are quiet. She said she knows of at least two of her friends who do it too. Any women here find time to diddle at work? That is something I did not know.

2007-02-14 14:59:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

HELP...i really like this guy..but how do i say it that i love u

2007-02-14 14:58:45 · 5 answers · asked by K0BE'Z BAY BAY 1

going out, and i dunno wat to say to him. is it ok to say, "can you go to the movies on saturaday wit me?

2007-02-14 14:57:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-14 14:57:29 · 5 answers · asked by Brian D 1

2007-02-14 14:57:05 · 3 answers · asked by Cool Dude 2