How do i start a conversation with a cute girl..?

Question

im usually not shy and i just have a feeling about her.. something inside me i can't explain .. how do i get the courage to talk to her because im really shy.. but usually im not shy of any girl.. why is this? and how do i talk to her?

Answer 1

You need to practice.

You need to chat for at least five minutes to at least 3 girls a day! Put you thoughts in there mind set. Lets me put it this way... If I wan to know how the Tiger apends his day... would I ask the Monkey? Would I ask the Snake? NO... I would spend more time around the Tiger!

Now this paln is a sure thing... stick to three new girls to chat to every day. Until you hit 15 - 21 girls. Not only will you have a good cross section of female friends but you will be learning some massive new skills. Then after you have you minimum of 15 new girls that you can speak to almost everyday... you will almost be ready.

Here are some good ice brekers... not set in stone but they are good. Start the questions with

Where did you get.....?

So you could say (Where did you get that phone? or Where did you get that belt?)

Do you know.....?

So you could say (Do you know how much it is for a drink in the bar over the road? then follow on with... Would you like to come for a drink with me.... My shout? Or you could say if your still at school Do you know that Mr Smith the enlish teacher... I think he sets us to much home work?)

Can I....?

So you could try.....(Can I walk you to the bus stop? Can I help you carry your bags? Can I hang out with you later? Can I buy you a drink?)

...............Do you know that?

This works to... Ask the questions and then add do you know that?

I think you look great... do you know that?

I am sure you get the picture. Don't forget to ask the Tiger!

Answer 2

ur shy because u like her. the first time i met my fiancee i was so nervous that i was literally shaking uncontrollably. there is nothing wrong with being shy and they like that because being shy when u normally aren't means u really like her. girls like this and can sense this. the only bad thing is that i don't know how old u guys are but if u see her at school then ask her if u two could talk on line and if she would want to exchange emails. don't just come straight out and say this though talk to her. just work it in to the convo. if ur still too shy to do this then ask one of ur friends or her friends if they could get it for u. good luck

Answer 3

In order to make interesting conversation, you must be interesting to others.

Keeping yourself informed on current events, staying involved in activities, and keeping a mental list of good topics of discussion are excellent ways to break the ice. Or sometimes you could even choose to start of a convo with a really funny joke.........

Instead of focusing on how uncomfortable you feel, prepare yourself by thinking of the issues that interest you most and what you would like to discuss about a particular subject.
Make an effort to be a good listener.

Even if you find it extremely difficult, always greet those you encounter with a smile and look them directly in the eye.

Asking about a WEEKEND PLAN or a RELATIVE, School, Job? is an excellent way to start a conversation and show genuine interest in those around you.

Hope that helped!!! :D

Answer 4

My suggestion would be to just ask her about something you may both have in common. For example, if she's in the same class as you or if her office is near hers, what ever the situation may be. Ask her out for coffee one day after work, or ask her if she'd like to form a study group. Be open with her but dont overshare. No girl likes a guy who seems concieted. If you cant find anything in common, then just ask her very politely for a date. I had a guy do that to me once... of course he turned out to be 30 and on an expired green card, but thats not the point. She'll admire the fact that your brave enough to approach her. :) good luck!

Answer 5

First of all, don't think of her as being cute. Think how you'd start a conversation with someone you want to be friends with.

Second, don't look like you're asking for something. Don't look apologetic and don't be apologetic.

I think one of the big mistakes guys make with girls is looking like they're sorry and like they knew the girl was out of their league.

While it IS flattering, it also sends the message to the girl that you have something to be insecure about, and she'll be looking for your defects. On the other hand, if you are confident (and friendly), she'll look for reasons to like you.

So, in short, look confident but not braggy; friendly and warm but not eager.

If you have no idea what to say, you could start with sort of a white lie...
"Have we met before? You look familiar... What do you do (etc.)"

It works everytime =D

Answer 6

Don't bother, she's out of your league. You feel this way because you know that your not good enough for her. Leave her alone and don't ruin her life man!. You see what will happen is that you will end up going out with each other anyway, even after my first warning and then it will end up with her having an affair and falling pregnant.

I am a psychic believe what I'm saying.

Answer 7

If I were you I would try just to be friends with her. Then you wont feel as shy since you're just friends. Then things can become more if you still like her.

Answer 8

Initially talk to her like you r talking to a male like ask her name,locality,hobbies,interests,movies. Then slowly realise that she is talking with a male by using some logical words.Then continue with a romantic talk.Ok. Follow these steps & u succeed.

Answer 9

Tell her she looks like someone you use to know. Then you can get her triing to help you figuring it out. Ive use that once when I got caught staring at a girl. She wasnt cute or anything I just zone out and then realised that I was staring. :)

Answer 10

perchance ask her something like "so how are you liking the karate instructions?" or "what made you ascertain to take karate?" the main to verbal substitute beginning is finding a topic matter which you the two share or participate of, to steer away from putting your self o awkward pauses. From there, if there is greater to be spoken approximately, it will ensue and you will comprehend whilst it occurs.