Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. We had one bad break up and got back together. Well we had plans this weekend and I have a baby shower on saturday so he didn't want to see eachother. Then we talked and compromised so we could hang out. Well I just got off the phone with him and now he wants to cancel Friday and Saturday. He got all mad on the phone and told me that I was getting on his nerves and I was even talking I was waiting for him to play his game. He hung up and thats where it ended. He gets in mood swings alot, and cancles plans once in a while. I don't know what to do about this. Am I over reacting about his mood swings or is there really a problem here? Please help!
2007-02-14 15:00:12 · 7 answers · asked by KAB128 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nah i wouldnt take it too seriously right now. people get testy all the time, at least he is comfortable around you to say it. and people cancel plans all the time. i do it at least once a week with people i know lol! but if he goes crazy and cancels all the time then it is a serious problem that you need to address with him...hope that helps
2007-02-14 15:05:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you really think? Deep down you know that once a couple "breaks up," for the first time the overall relationship is doomed. Each time the couple gets back together it doesn't last as long as the previous time. Perhaps you are nearing break up number two. If he is acting like a jerk - then he is acting like a jerk. You do not have to look for a reason, or try to point a finger of blame - a jerk is a jerk. You deserve better. You deserve someone whom respects you and your obligations and life. While your not looking for a monkey to bow to your every wish, you are looking for an understanding equal, not someone whom will make drama whenever life calls. Life is calling, will you pick up?
2007-02-14 15:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by njsnowrider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not over reacting, you are his gfriend and if he cares about you and spending time with you then surely you are more important than a game. a man with a bad mood is like a bear with a sore head, they just get more grumpy. if you can deal with his mood swings then hang in ther but i personally would not tolerate being treated and disrespected in that manner.
tell him exactly wat you think and tell him how disrespectful he is playing a game while you wait for him, if he blows up again i say quit while you ahead and if hes willing to compromise and work on things then go for it, but he dfoestn sound like a good guy for you
2007-02-14 15:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by Nobody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It maybe a problem, cause somethings get out of control things occur and things can not be taken back. And besides life is to short to be going through unnecessary drama.IF you are planning to get married think, would you want your kids to learn that type of behavior there's a lot of dysfunction going on around here brake the cycle.I can take the horse to the water I can not make him drink.
2007-02-14 15:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by truthlieswithin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok ...His mood swing could be cause he's insecure with himself and your relationship. If you truely love him to no end you'll find away to help him. Get him consoling. I have mood swings too.. one min I'm having a great day and the next min I'm depressed.
I know what he goes though ..so try to help him.
2007-02-14 15:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Don't waste your time with him.
I think his "mood swings" might really be disrespect for you in disguise.
2007-02-14 15:05:34 · answer #6 · answered by Smart Nurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's either bi-polar or just spoiled. Either way, is this how you want to live your life. If you keep overlooking and putting up with this behavior, it will not change. Don't let him say he's sorry unless he seeks help to change.
2007-02-14 15:04:14 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋