Singles & Dating - 14 February 2007

I was dating this girl for about 5 months and she has cheated on me twice now,and maybe even more for all I know.But, after the second time I found out,I said "thats it, were over" knowing good and well I still had tremendous feelings for her.We then got back together on and off from there for about two weeks,and technically,she didnt cheat on me, she just continued to keep away the truth and lie.But when she finally did tell me the truth, we broke up, and have stayed so. Well, currently,I have found out about a lot of stuff she has done with other guys since we have broken up...and I know that its not considered cheating, but, if she can move on that quick, why can't I? Why do I keep telling myself there is a chance for her to change? What is the right thing to do for myself? I feel...like I have no idea what to do. It really is not a fun feeling. What about talking to her? Would that be ok?Please,this is a first love case for me...and I can't beleive it had to turn out like...this

2007-02-14 16:24:00 · 11 answers · asked by Ryan S 1

im muslim, he is catholic. we are like, best of friends. we have so much fun together. all he does is tell me though "i really need a g/f" and it makes me sad...he will only go with a catholic girl. but i can't forget about him. and he knows i like him, i've told him many times. everybody at school thinks we're together, but...it's so hard on me. i can't like anybody else..i only like him. what should i do? its been this way for almost two years. THANKS!

2007-02-14 16:22:06 · 16 answers · asked by sk8rgirl734 1

I gave this girl that liked me a V day card but I was afraid to ask her out so is it ok for me to ask her out on Thursday or Friday?

2007-02-14 16:20:36 · 16 answers · asked by .......... 4

i dont know, these days in high school i felt more lonely then ever, i mean, am not popular am not cool am not a super cute or hot lookin guy, yes am asian, but just because am asian dont mean i make PS3 and bombed peral harbor... why isnt there any girls that like asian guys? i really dont think i look so bad like haveing really small eyes, i dont get why no one likes me ( means girls) i really wanted some one to love me, such as, during hard water polo practice wen it gets so hard i can just think of my girl friend and know i will see her soon, would help alot... any adivce on how i get a date or how i get a girl? orwhat am i i supose to do wen you like some one.

just some help for me!
some on help me thanks alot!

2007-02-14 16:19:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is he thinking?

It seems to happen a lot. I'm kinda shy. Is that why he doesn't talk to me?

2007-02-14 16:18:59 · 15 answers · asked by Friend 2

is it even possible to stop a rumor? how can i live my life with people constantly thinking im really something im not

2007-02-14 16:18:55 · 22 answers · asked by **B-ritt** 2

2007-02-14 16:18:02 · 4 answers · asked by geekyboi 2

I still like my ex even tho I broke up with her a year ago. I think she likes some other guy so I dont want to tell her how I feel straight up. we still talk and make jokes. I dont know if I should give up or keep at it. I feel like I'm getting no where.

What Should I Do?

2007-02-14 16:17:39 · 20 answers · asked by [quarantine] 3

We aren't necessarily bored, however we are compiling a list of the many different places we would eventually like to have sex, any suggestions? Try to be a little realistic please...

2007-02-14 16:17:14 · 16 answers · asked by Matthew 2

Like your first impression when you first see them. What is it that leaves you mesmerize?

2007-02-14 16:17:11 · 5 answers · asked by miley 2

How to build self confidence?

2007-02-14 16:14:59 · 8 answers · asked by la-cuckoo-racha 2

iI HAVE ONLY KNOWN HIM 3 WEEKS IS IT TO SOON TO MARRY I AM 48 HES 52 WE ARE NOT KIDS CAN IT HAPPEN AND BE FOREVER

2007-02-14 16:13:05 · 4 answers · asked by joan w 1

Well me and this girl started talking as friends a couple of months as friends but we have progressed to the point where we love each other very much. We just click together and we love being around each other, we dont argue fight nothing but love. The only problem with it though is that she has a boyfriend. They have been going out for over a year now and she loves him too. All three of us go to the same school and now we work together also. Needless to say he doesnt like me and eventhough I have no problem with him a part of me just cant stand seeing them together. A part of me wishes that they would break up but I just dont ever want to wish that on other people's relationship because I wouldnt want people to wish it on mine. We attempted to stop talking to each other because we do talk everynight so it can help out their relation ship and help me in the long run but we always came back to each other. We tried this three times and failed everytime.

2007-02-14 16:12:50 · 4 answers · asked by Truth Seeker 1

My ex just put as his msn quote "errr...ok Kel..."
Is Kel most likely a girl's name or a boy's name?
Do you think he's seeing someone now or am I just overreacting? I know it's not my business anymore but just a few weeks ago he called me to see a movie & I went with him. It wasn't a date although he pikced me up, and paid for the movie, I dunno what he wants. BUT I'm assuming he wasn't with anyone then so I dunno maybe he is now? Is this Kel girl his new girlfriend? I'm 21 and he's 26, he was my first boyfriend & first kiss. We dated for a short while then HE ended it sayig he was busy. We had a very innocent relationship, it never went past kissing, cuz he knew I'm saving mysekf for marriage. I guess this new girl must be outting out and making him happy. I feel sad:( When he was dropping me off he just said he wants to see me sometimes when I asked him why he called me and wanted to see me, since it had been one year. Is he seeing someone now & just keeping me as a backup?

2007-02-14 16:11:46 · 10 answers · asked by Hottie 1

I like this guy, but the problem is that he already has a girlfriend. I am friends with his girlfriend. I told her best friend that I liked this guy but I did not know that she was her best friend. well anyway I have known this guy since 2 grade and I have liked him since 6 grade. I am a freshman in high school now. His girl friend asked me what she should get him for Valentines day

2007-02-14 16:10:59 · 7 answers · asked by bluegold_rox 2

2007-02-14 16:10:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-14 16:09:39 · 4 answers · asked by <3Juicy.Couture.Love<3 5

2007-02-14 16:09:20 · 3 answers · asked by achelle....! 1

How I feel more happiness and the presence of god

2007-02-14 16:09:13 · 2 answers · asked by Bhagwan Dass S 1

my bf was doing things that has ruined our relationship. he hasnt changed in 2 1/2 yrs of trying. well i called it off this time and lately he is seeing that im standing my ground on not letting him come back. well do you think this will cause him to make a drastic change? i see a different look in his eye as if he is thinking he is going to loose me this time. he was lieing to me, gawking at women in front of me. going to parties and saying he was somewhere else, and many more things. but if he loves me like he says he does do you think he will change this way of life if he knows im gone forever this time?

2007-02-14 16:07:38 · 10 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4

3 months ago, I just knew that this guy likes me. I really like him. This crazy day I asked him out but he had something on so it did not happen. The next day, he asked me about it and kept apologising. I posted a question on this seems like a lot of people think he was interested in me. But he didn't ask me out.

But this is not the point. After that I got really embarrased and I avoided him and ignored him even when I see him facetoface. He looked at him a lot but he never says hi too.

I'm not sure if he likes me. I don't care. But I am guilty that I might have hurt him. I am just too shy and embarsd to say hi not on purpose.
But it's been 2 months. I really lose sleep over this. Should I stil go up and apologise? \will this be unnecessary? If you are the guy what will you think?
I'm scared i'll look stupid if he does not like me afterall and it doesnt even bother him that I ignore him. possible?

What do I do? I seriously wake up in the middle of the nite just thinking

2007-02-14 16:07:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm sick of hearing about all the dark chocolate! Us light skinned guys need some love too!

2007-02-14 16:04:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are really good friends, and since it was Valentine's Day today:

Anyways I thanked him for a ride, and stretched out my arm to give him a hug and he said, "Oh Okay, You Want a Hug."

He gave me a light hug, but nothing too Intimate...
So we said bye, and when I got out of the vehicle, he just rolled down his window quickly, his eyes seemed really big and shiny, and he just let a funny comment about one of my night classes, and I just answered it back with a small reply.

Can anyone interpret this; is there interest, or just friendship between us since we are really good friends.

I thought him mentioning something out of the vehicle when I left his car meant something, because he never does that when dropping me off at home, but I could just be overanalyzing the situation. 10pts for the best answer.

2007-02-14 16:04:16 · 13 answers · asked by Femme 2

2007-02-14 16:03:13 · 11 answers · asked by julie_al 1

2007-02-14 16:02:32 · 5 answers · asked by enyx92 2

2007-02-14 16:02:07 · 13 answers · asked by Blond&Beautiful 2

I've had some bad realtionships in the past, and have been hurt pretty bad. Ever since then is how've I've been shy. I have a relly hard time trusting guys now and keep my guard up way too high. And its something I can;t control. I just need to stop being so shy ad I need to know how to talk to guys.

2007-02-14 16:01:58 · 12 answers · asked by Juls 2

2007-02-14 16:00:59 · 19 answers · asked by Blond&Beautiful 2

do you prefer a weak/gentle handshake or a strong/firm one? does it matter?

personally, i think it does. it says alot about the person. but that's just me.

2007-02-14 15:58:21 · 13 answers · asked by belle 1

I'm pretty sure she likes me, because she always stares at me then I look at her and when we make eye contact she looks away. Its a pretty consistent thing too. Also, she was standing behind me and her friend pushed her into me. So, I figured she liked me but when I asked her out she said, "I met someone so I don't know." is the "I don't know part good?" WHAT IS GOING ON!?

2007-02-14 15:58:14 · 3 answers · asked by Zoso 2