i dont know, these days in high school i felt more lonely then ever, i mean, am not popular am not cool am not a super cute or hot lookin guy, yes am asian, but just because am asian dont mean i make PS3 and bombed peral harbor... why isnt there any girls that like asian guys? i really dont think i look so bad like haveing really small eyes, i dont get why no one likes me ( means girls) i really wanted some one to love me, such as, during hard water polo practice wen it gets so hard i can just think of my girl friend and know i will see her soon, would help alot... any adivce on how i get a date or how i get a girl? orwhat am i i supose to do wen you like some one.
just some help for me!
some on help me thanks alot!
2007-02-14 16:19:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way am chinese male. 6ft tall and am in school's waterpolo team
2007-02-14 16:31:56 · update #1
.........thats, a different take i must say but hey chicks love asain guys, chicks dont wanna show it but they like asians i dont know why, but every g/f ive had every girl that ive met has liked asians but thought they were and i qoute "where out of their league" i laugh everytime i hear that chicks have leagues like guys do lol anyways, just go up to someone and start flirting with them, maybe lil less beutiful to built confidence and see how it works out then hell go for the top pin. and if they reject you or somthin like that just keep in mind of this saying that my family using alot, including myself THINK it tho say it when your alone or with people who wont care *clears throat* "F**** 'em" :) there that makes me feel better lol meh high school lasts for 4 years after that you'll never see any of them again so why not enjoy it while it lasts?
2007-02-14 16:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to be REALLY honest with you (I'm an Asian girl myself) I know that for some reason girls just don't really find Asian guys attractive because they usually tend to be EXTREMELY immature. I've known a few Asian guys and whenever they were around me they'd always joke about having sex with me or say really stupid things around me. It just made me uncomfortable. I know that not all Asian guys are like that, but most of them are completely stereotyped as smart geeky dorks, video-game obsessed or just gangsta. I'm not saying you are; I know it's wrong to put stereotypes on people, I've had to suffer a few of my own. But if you really want to break out of the mold, do it. Jjust prove to everyone that you're different and are and be proud of who you are. When you're true to yourself people (including girls) will start respecting you more and looking past the color of your skin.
You'll find the right girl one day, really. This doesn't mean that girls aren't attracted to you and you'll be alone forever...you REALLY just haven't found the right one yet. Things like these take time...
2007-02-15 00:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by i love love 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could join some extracurricular activities clubs or do volunteer work. Sometimes girls don't know that they like you untill they get to know you, and if you are doing things together anyway, they will get to know you better. Plus, if you both like doing the same things, there is a good basis for being friends, which can lead to other things.
2007-02-15 00:29:14 · answer #3 · answered by diana f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we both are kinda ironic..
well im asian too but considering the way i look ..its above standards and i have a good built...and making friends with girls isnt really that hard..
however most girls get insecure around me..thingking im just another playboy dic*head, too scared that they might get hurt,
judging me before getting to know me better...
so i really say that looks are deceiving...
my advice is just be yourself...then people will love you for who you truly are...
let girls be attracted for who you are and the way you look and everything that is genuinely you..
what more could we do ?...
thats just love..
2007-02-15 01:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by J o h n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a real sweetheart. Believe it or not, alot of teenagers feel just like you do. I'm way past this stage on life but I remember my friends saying your exact words. Just be yourself .. you are unique and there will be many who will love and appreciate you just as you are.
2007-02-15 00:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all starts with your attitude. See yourself as a cool guy. When you start believing that, everybody else will, too. Your mind has a great power, so use it.
2007-02-15 00:35:09 · answer #6 · answered by Morpheous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the media constantly sending subliminal message to everyone telling them asian men are unattractive
2007-02-16 05:59:55 · answer #7 · answered by asian_man_admires_bbw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone is there whom you dont know and that person is waiting for you !!!!!!11
find him and live a happy life
all you need is love
good luck
2007-02-15 00:28:00 · answer #8 · answered by HULK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oneday someone will come along and like you for who you are.
2007-02-15 00:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by *Music ♥ Love* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋