My ex just put as his msn quote "errr...ok Kel..."
Is Kel most likely a girl's name or a boy's name?
Do you think he's seeing someone now or am I just overreacting? I know it's not my business anymore but just a few weeks ago he called me to see a movie & I went with him. It wasn't a date although he pikced me up, and paid for the movie, I dunno what he wants. BUT I'm assuming he wasn't with anyone then so I dunno maybe he is now? Is this Kel girl his new girlfriend? I'm 21 and he's 26, he was my first boyfriend & first kiss. We dated for a short while then HE ended it sayig he was busy. We had a very innocent relationship, it never went past kissing, cuz he knew I'm saving mysekf for marriage. I guess this new girl must be outting out and making him happy. I feel sad:( When he was dropping me off he just said he wants to see me sometimes when I asked him why he called me and wanted to see me, since it had been one year. Is he seeing someone now & just keeping me as a backup?
2007-02-14 16:11:46 · 10 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, sounds to me like your mind is acting up here, because you feel guilty of the whole - saving yourself for marriage - thing.
I dont think there is anything remotely indicating that you ex is in fact seeing some girl named Kelly or the likes.
DONT LET HIM KEEP YOU AS A BACKUP!
Your better than that girl! Dont start messing yourself up over this guy. He is too old for you, and IF he was in fact dumping you for a girl that is not saving herself for marriage, that just goes to show that you two are not meant to be!!!
I respect your choice alot - but it does put some strain on the type of guys that u should date. And it does put some complications on your end as well!
Be aware: Dont make this about you! Dont feel that its about your choice to be a virgin. THERE ARE signals YES. But not that anything is wrong with you or your choice.
- He didnt choose someone else because you made a wrong choice, or because anything is wrong with you.
2007-02-14 16:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by the_02r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything is possible, so u also keep all your options open. It is good to know that u are saving yourself for marriage. Let it remain like that, and do not be jealous of this new girl, maybe she exists maybe she does not. If u play a bit hard to get, and a bit sophisticated, maybe he will come back to u. If u are cheap and easy, he will come and go, and maybe keep u as a backup.
2007-02-14 16:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh how you took me back! My ex boyfriend did almost the same thing! He broke it off with me but then would call and ask me to go with him here or there. I was so in love with him, so I always went. But it was clear he didnt want to be with me, but didnt want to let me go completly either.
Maybe this Kel is a new girl. Or maybe it is a guy! Or just a friend. But if you still love this guy, my advice....
Tell him! Tell him you still want him, but dont let him use you when only HE wants or when HE is bored. Tell him that you want to be his friend, but it has to work both ways.
Good Luck!
2007-02-14 16:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by BeckyKay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has been a whole year since u split so why are u still giving this loser the time of day? Move on, there are plenty of other guys out there, good ones are hide to find yes but u just need to keep looking. And if he is still causing u pain then why are u having anythin to do with him?
2007-02-14 16:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 04:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry girl i 'm gonna hafta pop your bubble but to me that sounds like you gotta player on your hands. Stop. and back away from this guy because he's gonna hurt you. You need to live in reality and realize that if he REALLY wanted to be with you he would be, but he's not, right? if he can't accept the fact that your saving yourself anyway, HE'S NOT WORTH IT!! besides you are young and there are many fish in the sea so don't settle for anything less.
2007-02-14 16:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by Elle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww stop seeing him sweetie. Give your self a clean break and move on he's just not "the" one. But he does like your company, so thank him for that but tell him you need to move on and you wish him the best of luck!
P.S. I'm proud of you you rock!!!
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2007-02-14 16:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by mauikittie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's talking to kel a popular workplace computer program used to inventory stuff. stop being paranoid.
2007-02-14 16:16:45 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Barker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut, girl! You already know the answer. You have said it yourself above.
Ditch this dude! You deserve better than him!
2007-02-14 16:26:21 · answer #9 · answered by Deana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just playing around. dont hope too much
2007-02-14 16:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by mizz_car 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋