We are really good friends, and since it was Valentine's Day today:
Anyways I thanked him for a ride, and stretched out my arm to give him a hug and he said, "Oh Okay, You Want a Hug."
He gave me a light hug, but nothing too Intimate...
So we said bye, and when I got out of the vehicle, he just rolled down his window quickly, his eyes seemed really big and shiny, and he just let a funny comment about one of my night classes, and I just answered it back with a small reply.
Can anyone interpret this; is there interest, or just friendship between us since we are really good friends.
I thought him mentioning something out of the vehicle when I left his car meant something, because he never does that when dropping me off at home, but I could just be overanalyzing the situation. 10pts for the best answer.
2007-02-14 16:04:16 · 13 answers · asked by Femme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He values the close friendship for now. But he could have hidden deep feelings and he's happy that he had some one special to spend Valentines Day with. I think secretly he's crushing on you. Hope it all works out. You go girl and be ready there Julliet your Romeo isn't far away.
2007-02-14 16:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's just friendship. I think that if it was more, his response would have been different and possibly more inviting than just "oh okay, you want a hug." So what if he "never" rolls down his window to say something more? Doesn't mean that he won't "ever" do it. I would suggest just being good friends with him for now. If it's meant to be more, it will come in time and you will probably be sure of it! Hope this helped!
2007-02-15 00:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by kaliluna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be nothing, depending on the guy...
Think of it this way, is he the hugging type? Is he a very intimate personality. You have to put it into perspecitve with his normal behaviour.
However, think of it merely this way - do you yourself wish to take your friendship further? Because it really sounds like you do. Maybe you should start out by focusing a bit on what you are thinking, and then you can start with his behaviour.
2007-02-15 00:14:24 · answer #3 · answered by the_02r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so it was valentines day...he gave you a ride ..so im assuming you guys went on a "date"
if you guys have been really good friends, but then went out on a date that is kinda different already..
since you mention "his eyes seemed really big and shiny" given the impression..your eyes get big and shiny when you are about to cry...in his case i think he was choking it...
i think maybe he has feelings for you..and wants to be more than just friends
your question is not quiet clear..
2007-02-15 00:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by J o h n 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing in your description that would lead me to believe that he was expressing an interest. He mentioned something about a night class out of his window. Why would that lead you to think that meant anything beyond what he said. It doesn't mean anything, in my mind.
Mannnn, guys?? They're relentless. If he was interested, I don't think he'd be as subtle. Typically, at least in my experience, there's no 'reading in between the lines' with men. Really. They usually let you know they're interested...usually in pretty blatent ways.
2007-02-15 00:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no sure fire way to tell, but i have a lot of male friends and it sounds a little more to me like he is starting to care more about you, or question it. Give him time to figure it out himself. And keep an eye on that body language, its a usuful tool...
2007-02-15 00:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by aomeneesan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the hell? Was he crying or something? lol. I'm not sure though. You can never really tell with a close friend unless they come out and tell you straight up.
2007-02-15 00:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by The12thMan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
communication is the cornerstone of a heathy relationship. Not to say i know anything about that part of relationships. Yet thats what my psycho babbling parents always say.
2007-02-15 00:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by matthew m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wanted you to kiss him.. LOL..
he wanted to say something more.. but he got nervous..
You should just walk up to him and get really close to his lips...
I wonder what he would do.. lol
2007-02-15 00:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by -Dr. D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's already given up on you, and considered the hug to have been offered as an insult.
2007-02-15 00:09:50 · answer #10 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋