last night something fairly bad happened to me that i thought my bf should know my friend cody came over and we were home alone (nothing, i repeat NOTHING like that happened)he needed to use my computer to finish a homework assignment and my mom knew he was coming over well when he was finished he said "thanks" and kissed me on the cheek(he had no idea i had a bf) well i think he wanted me to take it further but i just looked at him and he knew something was wrong he touched my cheek lightly and said "devin whats wrong uve liked me since we met" i told him i know but now i have a bf and for now ur on the friend level and nothing more im sry, well thats when his step dad pulled up in my driveway and he hugged me and said im sry i didnt know, well now he feels really bad and i told my bf i thought he should know and i think my bf is mad at me i didnt get to explain because he had to go so now what should i do i didnt enjoy "cheating" and i think my bf is mad at me what should i do?
its happened before but the guys didnt get anywhere they were trying to force me and i pushed them off and they got their a** kicked
2007-02-14 15:10:06 · 15 answers · asked by female football player 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think he gets it he stopped by like 5 minutes ago my lil sister let him in and he apologized and kissed me, like really kissed and i think that he really wants me to go further
2007-02-14 15:29:50 · update #1
A kiss on the cheek caused all this, I think you like Cody more than you realize or you would not have thought you cheated.
2007-02-14 15:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically a kiss on the cheek isn't considered cheating but no doubt it was wrong but you said he didnt know you had a bf...honestly your bf should be relieved that nothin major happened and be glad you told the guy you were in a relationship some females out there would have let it lead to other things he should be happy your not one of them and that you stepped up and let him know you were off limits and no longer available. Just try to explain to your bf again.
2007-02-14 15:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by GODSGIFT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think u cheated..that guy likes u n did not know u had a bf, he did say sorry..and he only kissed u on the cheek. Your bf shld appreciate that he has a honest gf...he shldn't be mad at u. You are the kind of girl many guys want..and u did nothing wrong. If he don't wanna listen to u, tell him this...do u want an honest gf or one that lies to u. That wld make him think.
2007-02-14 15:16:18 · answer #3 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dont get your panties all in a bunch...
first of all, from what i ATTEMPTED to understand he kissed you on the cheek...SERIOUSLY thats not cheating.
secondly, honesty is the best policy, but not when it comes to things like this.
why would you want to upset your boyfriend over a stupid kiss...on the cheek?
it wasnt necessary for you to tell him. I know it sounds counter productive, but some couples do keep things to themselves yet still have a fairly normal relationship.
Next time you think you cheat, keep your mouth zipped. If u know you wont do it again, then there's no reason for you to say anything to your boyfriend or anyone for that matter.
and like i said...i think you need to realize that a kiss on the cheek is not cheating...IN ANY COUNTRY!
2007-02-14 15:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by santichilebabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didnt do anything wrong you stood up for your relationship by telling him and not doing anything. kiss on the cheek by him isnt that big of a thing either cuz family and friends kiss on the cheek all the time, it was just a mistake by him and thats it. dont worry
2007-02-14 15:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO
your boy friend is mad over that
a little over protective?
i know people who do the same thing but like in school
in like grade 9-12
i even know some of my cousins and there friends that are liek 20
and they dont take it like your boy friend did/is
its a friendly thing?
getover it?
2007-02-14 15:14:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If nothing happened, then you shouldnt be so worried. Your boyfriend will calm down, and if he really cares for you, he'll be back to hear the rest of the explanation. If he doesnt come back, well then you worried for nothing!
2007-02-14 15:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off i respect you very much your one of the few girls who i would know wouldnt cheat second you didnt cheat he kissed you you didnt kiss him if you had kissed him then it would have been cheating but it was a simple misunderstanding you DID NOT cheat
2007-02-14 17:14:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain it clearly to your boyfriend when he gets back. And be extra nice to him for the next week or something.
2007-02-14 15:13:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DIDDN"T CHEAT!
you just shouldent have told your boyfriend, i mean nothing happened and you told the guy that you already are taken! trust me your boyfriend will forgive you
2007-02-14 15:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋