Singles & Dating - 12 February 2007

I have gone out a few times(as friends) with a girl I met at friend's birthday party. Things have always been on a very relaxed level but, I have always found her extremely attractive. I took her out last week to a birthday get together for a friend and we really hit it off. The evening ended with us hooking up, talking for hours, her telling me how much she liked me, us discussing future plans and how highly my friends, whom I've known for many years, have spoken of me. Suddenly, she has fallen off the map. I have called her once, and she was very cold. Later, that week I called asking if she would like to go out, with no reply. I am just trying to get some input on what to do here. Normally, I would just count her out but, I can't seem to let this one go. Any advice?
The big factor in this is that I was not aware until I had known her for a bit was that she is still living with her ex and does not move out until March. Is that playing as a factor at all?

2007-02-12 04:13:38 · 15 answers · asked by maple 1

have you as a twin or a person that really knows some twins ever met a identical twin who is say 105 pounds and the other twin is the same wieght. but thought i am fat while my sister is not.
is this something that happens or is that too confused even for a person with say anorexia?

2007-02-12 04:09:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and this Guy I had and Still have a Crush on Hung out at my place this past Weekend and it's a Funny story because he's Muslim and he said to me that it Was wrong for him to Even exchange phone #'s with me from the Start because I guess their religion is Totally Strict in that way. I'm Christian, so I find it nothing wrong with Exchanging #'s to get to know somebody, Anyways We hun out at my Apt and talked and Kissed , etc and Like right after wards he was acting like he regreted the Whole thing and even Said it to me and Then he left out, Hmmm, so He calls me 3 hours later and Said that He feels Different when he was at my apartment, and that he Wants to continue to talk to me and I Totally find the Whole Situation with him Wierd!!! But I would like to get to know him and the Conversation lasted about an hour and we talked about our first time and how many Sexual partners we had, just regular small talk and He even said not to mention other Guys at the end of the conversation!

2007-02-12 04:09:04 · 6 answers · asked by kittysweetie19 2

such a close friend that it's weird to even fathom ever telling her how I really feel. Somedays it seems she could care less sometimes I think,... maybe....Or is it me wanting to see what I want to see??? It's crazy because it's all I've been thinking about lately and I think it's making me insane. What is a sign that maybe she feels the same way???

2007-02-12 04:09:00 · 10 answers · asked by mamarjdogg 1

I am so picky and constantly look for a flaw in my partner..... Why do I do this....? I'm seeing this girl at the moment and already I am looking for flaws.....Will I never find what i am looking for....

2007-02-12 04:08:19 · 22 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4

We dated for 6 months and I broke up with him 2 weeks ago. He's the greatest guy, but allot older than me, and he doesn't want a serious relationship. We went into the relationship not wanting it to be serious, (just for sex) but along the way I started falling for him. I realilized a month ago that it I cared about him, so I broke up with him. We are still friends and have had sex a few times since we split. Is it ok to still be using eachother like this?

2007-02-12 04:08:06 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

onetime i was going to chruch and there were 3 girls siting there i go shake there hand and i saw one of the girl face she tie her tounge and looking at me after i shake her hand she looks on the ground and smile and then i go shake her sister hand and she looks at me. then i went to shake more peoples hand and went back to sit and i hear 2 wispering hes cute and her firend look at me for like 8 secs and then shel ooks at me when i look back she looks somewher else really fast does this girl like me?

2007-02-12 04:08:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

He always looks at me and flirts with me. His name is Jonathon

2007-02-12 04:07:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lately my boyfriend and I have been going through a rough patch. In the beginning I never doubted that he cared about me. He would call me several times a day, spend as much time with me as he could, take me out to nice places, and just overall I got the vibe that he really loved being with me. I never even asked him to do these things for me he just did them. After several months passed though, this feeling began to die down. He didn’t call me very much anymore, he never took me out to places like he did in the beginning and he didn’t want to spend so much time with me anymore. I feel crushed, I miss the old him, the guy that I fell in love with. All we’ve been doing know for the past month is fight over almost everything. For example whenever I talk to my guy friends he always freaks out. He doesn’t understand that I don’t want anyone else and that I love him. Yet last night we went to a party together and he spent more time taking pictures with his arm around this other girl, then he did with me. Honestly it made me really jealous; I wouldn’t do that to him, so I don’t understand why he had to do it to me. Also one night he and I had plans to spend the night at my house, yet he completely bailed on me. I went over to his house to find him calling up all his friends trying to find a good party to go to for the night. He never even bothered to tell me we were no longer hanging out. When he saw I was upset he told, me to stop pouting. He said, Saturday nights were the one nights that he had to go out late because he didn’t have work the next day. He told me that if I kept pouting then he was just going to bring me home because he didn’t want me ruining his night. In the beginning of the relationship he would never have said this. Whenever it is just the two of us, all he wants is sex and then it’s like the rest doesn’t matter to him. It really annoys me I don’t even know what to do anymore. But the thing is the guy that I fell in love with; I just can’t get myself to forget about. I really do love him just not the person he sometimes is. What do you think I should do about everything? And thank you so much for reading this

2007-02-12 04:06:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does it mean if the gift changes from CD and books to flowers ?

2007-02-12 04:05:20 · 11 answers · asked by Kaliyug Ka Plato 3

2007-02-12 04:05:04 · 16 answers · asked by D8411 5

She seems like she really wants it to happen. They are both in a class with me. She is a nice person, so she wouldn't talk bad stuff about me to him.

2007-02-12 04:04:59 · 5 answers · asked by ursoolastsumer 2

Hi, i am 20yrs old....i love a girl right from my school days in Pune...we were good friends in school.But after 10th, i shifted to Mumbai and since then we haven't met so much. i never confessed to her that i love her.now we don't meet so often because we live far away.although we talk on the phone...should i propose her?...will she accept my love?...what do i tell her?will this long distance relationship last any longer?

2007-02-12 04:04:44 · 24 answers · asked by pinku 2

2007-02-12 04:04:32 · 6 answers · asked by tot 2

He isn't a relative. He says he doesn't want anything serious and wants me to be open to see other people. What the heck does it all mean?

2007-02-12 04:03:22 · 2 answers · asked by :o) 3

Im with this guy and he wants to have sex! Im Ready but we are not Boyfriend and Girlfriend! Im 17 and he is 19!

2007-02-12 04:03:00 · 1 answers · asked by Im addicted to the memory of him 3

if my boyfriend ask me to some over and have sex with him what should i do first to make him stay with me and go ahead with our relationship and what should i do to flirt with him to get him ready?

2007-02-12 04:00:08 · 10 answers · asked by shortybam 1

my ex bf and i broke up a long time ago, however we still keep in touch and talk mostly through aim. he also calls me occasionally to "check up" on me. when he talk he'll sometimes bring up things about how i was his favorite gf and jokes bout us getting married in the future. but when we try to hang out, he'll often "forget". he's a big partier and likes his freedom, but has also told me he wouldnt mind having a gf. its just that he hasnt specifically tried to make things work out between us again. so are those comments bout missing me and being such a good gf and marriage- just a way to keep me on the side, or do u think there could be some truth to it? thanks!

2007-02-12 03:58:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-12 03:58:07 · 2 answers · asked by Memo HG 3

Ok...so I met this guy who helped me get through some rough times in my life...we got really close then all of a sudden he is not ready for a relationship, but when he is, it is gonna be me. Now, he has found someone else and I am left with all these feelings. I don't wanna feel them, but I just turn them off, what do I do???

2007-02-12 03:55:38 · 3 answers · asked by Simply Gorgeous 1

Instead of commuting an 80 mile round trip per day my boyfriend is talking about me living with me Monday-Friday (I live within a mile of his work) and in his own place with his flatmate at weekends.

Everything is great between us and he will obviously contribute financially but is this a fair arrangement? We've been together nearly a year.

2007-02-12 03:54:25 · 24 answers · asked by star 3

Im on the larger side and i would like to kno what positions do women love when a man is large and quite thick...please respond in a mature way.

2007-02-12 03:52:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i hav had a bad break up nd he has abused my past(with another guy) saying that its me because of whom i had splits with both..help!

2007-02-12 03:50:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

"Be Easy"

2007-02-12 03:50:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

People often say that you meet the right mate when you least expect it. I was wondering how often this actually happens.

2007-02-12 03:50:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi,
I have the greatest BF in the world. I know without a doubt that he loves me but sometimes I feel like that since he has "won me over" he is no longer trying to impress me. I kinda feel like it is my fault and that I am to boring for him. I know he still love me because he almost crys if I don't seem happy.
How can I get that "spark" back.

2007-02-12 03:48:47 · 13 answers · asked by Selena H 1

I seen someone post this as anwer. I just wanna know what the hell it is.

2007-02-12 03:48:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

any move to go farther and have "sex" tht means he doesnt really likes me???

2007-02-12 03:47:32 · 7 answers · asked by alex 3

I got kicked out of his house and i now live at my parents. We are still together boyfriend and girlfriend wise, but he still doesnt believe me fully that i only see him now. He said that i cheated on him, when i said i missed my ex. Not physically but emotionally. And i believe that too. It was even worse when he told me that he hasnt missed anyone, and that he only "sees" me. I just want us to work out. And figure out why i missed my ex for that split second when i said i missed him. Cause in reality, the more i think about it, the more i dont. Please help. Urgent.

2007-02-12 03:47:20 · 7 answers · asked by sexaychunkobeast 1

I want the best for him

2007-02-12 03:44:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous