I am so picky and constantly look for a flaw in my partner..... Why do I do this....? I'm seeing this girl at the moment and already I am looking for flaws.....Will I never find what i am looking for....
2007-02-12 04:08:19 · 22 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
at one point, yes.
then i figured i better change or i wont be getting laid every weekend...i'm much happier now!
2007-02-12 04:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
You'll never find what you're looking for this way. I have a girlfriend who was really picky. Well she is now in her mid-30's and she is alone (and this is not by choice). She has had some awesome bf's in the past, but she would dump them for the smallest things. Now she is in search of a man and now she doesn't care what kind of man she ends up with just as long as she gets one. She went from picky to needy. It's okay to set standards. However, don't set your standards so high that you yourself can't even measure up to. Don't be so picky that you miss out on a great girl.
2007-02-12 04:16:04 · answer #2 · answered by Inez 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You won't ever find anyone like that everyone has the, no one is perfect so ur gonna be alone for a very long time...............
The flaws r the good part about a person.....u got flaws but apperantly other girls just accept them and accept u for how u are. Which is the right thing to do.
If you love someone it shouldnt matter what their flaws are.
2007-02-12 04:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's an eternal curse I'm afraid. It's only when the flaws that you find are out numbered and over shadowed by the perfections that you find that you know you've found the one! This may take some time...but you can't settle for anything less, just don't be unkind to them about it.
Good luck!
2007-02-12 04:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by zweebob 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I realize that everyone has their faults. Of course I'd like to find that one guy that was EXACTLY everything I'd ever want - but I'm not going to demand perfection from anyone. The only one I'm going to hurt by being that picky is myself. I'd rather have a guy that has the things I really need to be happy and the other stuff just does not matter.
2007-02-12 04:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont set my standards too high on purpose & I certainly dont think I look for flaws purpose, but I do know what you mean - I can only ever seem to go on two dates w/ guys before Im over it!
My friends think Im a maneater, I just tell them I know what I want out of life!
2007-02-12 04:14:32 · answer #6 · answered by Pippa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a look at yourself more closely. Are the flaws you find in other people things you're afraid people might find in you? What is really at the source of your annoyance?
Whether or not you're compatible will come through in other ways - when you're open to experience a person for who they are, then you can see if you're a match with them.
2007-02-12 04:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by myemptybucket 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 04:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are seeing this new girl, for goodness sake, just accept her for who she is and stop looking for flaws. no one is perfect. u will find what u are looking for when u learn to accept people for who they are. if the girls have bad habits, that's different. but everyone has flaws, u included. if u keep on this way, u will end up alone.
2007-02-12 04:14:23 · answer #9 · answered by rambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is perfect, including you. If you can't help looking for flaws in others then you need to be alone!
2007-02-12 04:11:41 · answer #10 · answered by jacquie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are looking for excuses to avoid commitment. Did you grow up in a divorced or dysfunctional family? You need to talk to a therapist or a counselor. Otherwise, you will have an unhappy and lonely life.
2007-02-12 04:15:27 · answer #11 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋