Hi,
I have the greatest BF in the world. I know without a doubt that he loves me but sometimes I feel like that since he has "won me over" he is no longer trying to impress me. I kinda feel like it is my fault and that I am to boring for him. I know he still love me because he almost crys if I don't seem happy.
How can I get that "spark" back.
2007-02-12 03:48:47 · 13 answers · asked by Selena H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well since I have posted this question I had a chance to talk to him about it. He said I just worry to much and don't take change well. He admits that he has been giving me the cold shoulder but says that he still loves me. I want to know how I can get him through this. Or at least how I can keep it from ruining our relationsip. He says there is just no reason and it will pass.
2007-02-14 06:31:54 · update #1
You have to work at a relationship to make it work and it looks as if you are doing all the work..tell him to make the effort or be single.
2007-02-19 23:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The spark, so to speak, is still there. It's when someone feels truely relaxed around another person is when it gets misinterpreted as dull. If you broke up with him and went looking for another mate, you will find that "spark" in he beginning. After awhile it, too, will fade, but only to a different level. If a man (or woman) continued doing impressive things everyday then that would also get boring to you. You are at a point that when he does do something extra impressive you can appreciate it more. If he was bored with you he wouldn't seem so concerned that you are unhappy.
Here's another tip:
Men are more attracted to and responsive to a happy woman than to one who is always frowning and sad.
2007-02-12 12:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by RJsGirl 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Communication is the key,both of you have to sit down and talk about it in order to keep the spark in the relationship...you might have to make a few changes in your attitude towards him to make it happen....get out of the same daily routine and monotony,
you know he loves you and he knows you love him back,but sometimes changes are necessary in a relationship to keep it in the right direction...use your best judgment...good luck.
2007-02-12 12:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Love can exist without the "spark". Be happy that you can be comfortable around each other and secure in your relationship without trying to impress each other.
It's a sign of a mature relationship.
2007-02-12 11:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why do women require so much attention? Why do guys always have to be doing tricks and things to let you know we're still interested. Does it ever end? Will a woman ever be satisfied that we're not interested in playing games? If he's still with you after all your drama and nagging, that should be enough. If you keep it up, he may leave.
2007-02-12 11:52:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It sounds like you do have a great bf.
Try doing something really nice for him that you know he will appreciate.
Show him how much he means to you and how much you love him, b/c if you don't someone else will.
2007-02-12 11:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sometimes u have to create that spark again make him feel he has to win you over again dont let things be so easy for him its like bringin the romance back.
2007-02-12 11:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by Mike B 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
In true love you dont need to impress each other.He cares for you, be happy with that.
2007-02-12 11:52:35 · answer #8 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
try new things how about taking him out go up to him one day and say hello my name is and (tell him what you think of him) and i was wondering if you wood like to go out with me some time what i am saying is try to restart the relationship
2007-02-12 11:57:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like he is a whining,crying worthless wuss
2007-02-20 10:54:10 · answer #10 · answered by dcam47 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋