if my boyfriend ask me to some over and have sex with him what should i do first to make him stay with me and go ahead with our relationship and what should i do to flirt with him to get him ready?
2007-02-12 04:00:08 · 10 answers · asked by shortybam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to have way more self-respect honey. Don't let yourself be someone's "Booty Call."
A guy who calls you up for sex is NOT your boyfriend.
2007-02-12 04:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you known this guy? My advise is not to have sex until you build a bond and really love each other.For an example: When I was 20 I met a guy that I really liked and after a few weeks he wanted to have sex and I said no.Years later after we were married he said he feel in love with me because I wasn't easy and I was a challenge which guys like. I believe love should come first. If having sex with this guy is the only way to keep him, he's not worth losing your dignity and maybe your heart. Sweetie, if you have to ask what to do to make him ready, you're not ready yourself for what's in store for you. Best of luck.
2007-02-12 12:17:51 · answer #2 · answered by gabeymac♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend asked you to come over for sex - and sex alone - then you may want to rethink this relationship. If you are looking for a relationship based on mutual love - I don't think this is it. Have some respect for yourself and love yourself first. You should want someone who will love you for you - not someone that you have to "make stay" as you stated.
2007-02-12 12:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by Leah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So are you asking us how to seduce your boyfriend? I think most men don't need seduction or any preparation from their partner. All they want to know is that you are ready to accommodate him without much resistance if you know what I mean. I find an answer to the second part of your question somewhat difficult because after the act he is more likely to take off quickly or fall asleep.
2007-02-12 12:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is using you for sex only then there is nothing you can do to keep him --- if he wants to know you better then the sex is not important and you can say no ---- best wishes
2007-02-12 12:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you gotta have sex with him but you are unsure if he will keep you around-that usually means he's not your boyfriend.
Run for the hills.....
2007-02-20 11:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by marquella_la_nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he thinks that you are what he thinks is relationship material he will stay
2007-02-12 12:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you been here several times so get in his room and jump on top and see what happens
2007-02-20 11:34:17 · answer #8 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer # 1 Feed him . Answer # 2 Feed him Answer # 3 Really feed him!!! ( if you get my drift)
2007-02-12 12:05:22 · answer #9 · answered by winnerfull-1 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him you want to wait, if he dumps you he was no good anyways, if he says ok, then wait, your to young anyways.
2007-02-12 12:08:00 · answer #10 · answered by GatorHunter® 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋