Me and this Guy I had and Still have a Crush on Hung out at my place this past Weekend and it's a Funny story because he's Muslim and he said to me that it Was wrong for him to Even exchange phone #'s with me from the Start because I guess their religion is Totally Strict in that way. I'm Christian, so I find it nothing wrong with Exchanging #'s to get to know somebody, Anyways We hun out at my Apt and talked and Kissed , etc and Like right after wards he was acting like he regreted the Whole thing and even Said it to me and Then he left out, Hmmm, so He calls me 3 hours later and Said that He feels Different when he was at my apartment, and that he Wants to continue to talk to me and I Totally find the Whole Situation with him Wierd!!! But I would like to get to know him and the Conversation lasted about an hour and we talked about our first time and how many Sexual partners we had, just regular small talk and He even said not to mention other Guys at the end of the conversation!
2007-02-12 04:09:04 · 6 answers · asked by kittysweetie19 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he sees you as the SIN in his religious ehtics. He feels good being able to resist you when he's around you.
He may actually like to have you as a guilty pleasure. In any case, it is a weird relationship. I think he should really call it off and go cold turkey if he's going to be faithful.
2007-02-12 04:15:53 · answer #1 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not going to like this answer, but my guess is that he does like you and would like to keep you around until he meets 'the one'. His family would probably not accept your relationship with him. He will also have guilt issues to deal with and may be reluctant to introduce you as a girlfriend to his friends and family. You may start feeling like you're dating a married guy. I think you're setting yourself up to be hurt. Cultural and religious differences can be quite a challenge. And hey.....discussing sexual histories does not qualify as 'regular small talk.' I don't know much about the muslim religion, but my bet is that he plans to marry a virgin. Are you willing to stay in this relationship if he considers it as a 'sexual relationship' only or you as a mistress?! The choice is yours, just make sure he treats you well. See what plans he's made for next weekend. Good Luck
2007-02-12 12:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Muslim guy and i am telling you that it can be really hard when it comes to relationship with girls trust me. The reason that he does not want to know about you past is because in middle eastern culture it is not seen proper if your in a relationship with a woman who is not a virgin. Take is slow and make sure you know what you are getting into before you decide to commit good luck.
2007-02-12 12:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by siddiq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time and past sexual partners are not as you stated, "just regular small talk."
This guy has gone against his religion and he has to deal with that feeling of guilt, if he has any, since it seems it was easy for him to turn his back on his beliefs.
I dunno, if you are happy with it, then go for it.
2007-02-12 12:13:59 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try holding back a little let him chase u
2007-02-12 12:12:12 · answer #5 · answered by Andri W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN
hes a jerk
2007-02-12 12:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by Mia l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋