Singles & Dating - 12 February 2007

used to sleep with this guy, until i discovered he wasn't making a committment.. so i left him alone.. i realised that he never took me out, called me only when he wanted some etc.. since i stopped sleeping with him, he has made various attempts.. flirting endlessly inspite of my distant behaviour.. today, he kept asking me how am doing and i said great, which is the truth!, then i asked him and he said he wanted to see me so he could give me a hug, then he asked me what i was doing tonight and i said not quite sure. anyway, he said he's gonna call me tonight! back then, i would have been glad to hear him say those words, but i'm no longer interested.. i mean i still like him, but i'm now dating someone who treats me really well and i can't get involved with the ex cuz i've got something good now! what do you think the ex wants and how should i handle him??? ps: my other ex be4 this one keeps calling me, too!

2007-02-12 06:33:07 · 7 answers · asked by God's own 1

2007-02-12 06:32:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-02-12 06:31:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, I'm assuming he's shy because I can't figure out what else he is....he's got me baffled! Usually (in my experience), guys have always been pretty easy to figure out, but not this one.
I always thought he was interested (stares, tends to be where I'm going to be, etc), so finally I offered him lunch. We got together and found out we have tons in common (so much, it's actually kinda creepy).
Then we made (or I made) a suggestion for a future get-together. He accepted, but then sorta disappeared without giving me a way to reach him.
Then a month later, he came to see me at work and acted very interested again (I know I didn't imagine it). So we decided to get together again the following week, which we did. But during that time, he almost seemed to want to be friends only...just a feeling I picked up.
Now, I'm waiting for him to show up again - I have no way to reach him. I almost get the feeling he wants to control what happens (or doesn't happen) between us.
Any ideas?

2007-02-12 06:30:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think my girl is cheating on me.. she hides her e-mails, text messages, and deletes her phone calls... it's all over a suspicion that I have of this one guy, who I don't like, who I think she may be cheating on me with..

I told her I would not care, just be honest with me so I could move on. I told her I wanted her to be with him, and she said, "Sorry, that's not happening!" and I've basically been hinting at wanting to break up, but she just says she loves me and nothing is going on, and everything can be "worked out"

I've given her MANY chances to end the relationship, but she hasn't.. and yet she still hides and deletes her calls.. and she says nothing is going on with them two.

What should I do??

2007-02-12 06:29:48 · 18 answers · asked by eric c 1

ok so me an dmy boyfriend got in a fight kinda well he said he needed time to think so he left well i work so i had a babysitter well when i got back the babysitter was gone and the kids were gone so i called her to find out what was going on she said that my boyfriend came to take them to the doctors they are not sick and they have no apomments so i called him and he said he wants to be the father of my kids even if he really aint and the only way that i can see them is if i agruee to marry him i love him and all so i said lets talk about it well he said it is yes or no i want to so i said yes plus i wanted my kids back well know he is being a jerk and i need time away from him and he will not leave me alone he calls me at work to make sure i ain't somewhere else. he called me cell phone place and has a call list of peoplpe i call sent to him so he knows i am not on the phone with any guys what can i do

2007-02-12 06:28:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am the girl i really love this guy and he likes me back. I like him so much i wnt to be with him. Want can i do to make this work. I love him so much. bI know he has feelings for me to.

2007-02-12 06:26:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

s those advances. You don't want the nice girl.. so don't say you're looking for a relationship: relationships take time and energy and intent, three things we're willing to extend - -but in return, we're looking for compassion and loyalty and trust, three things you never seem willing to express. Maybe nice guys finish last, but in the race they're running they're chasing after the whores and the sluts and the easy-targets...the nice girls are waiting at the finish line with water and towels and a congradulatory hug(and yes,if she's a nice girl and she likes you, the sweatiness probably won't matter),hoping against hope that maybe you'll realize that they're the ones that you want at the end of that silly race.So maybe it won't last forever.Maybe some of those guys in that race will turn in their running shoes and make their way to the concession stand where we're waiting; however, until that happens,we still have each other,that silly race to watch, and all the chocolate we eat......

2007-02-12 06:26:01 · 2 answers · asked by g13player 1

This past weekend was the start of a very bad week, my brother used my jeep to go to a party, and when he was leaving, someone broke my drivers side window and was trying to steal my ride, so now i have no window and it started to rain and will continue to rain for the week, now i know V-day is coming up, and yet again i am alone for another depressing holiday. Im just feeling down on myself today, and feeling very unattractive and blah. I could just scream and hide in my closet for the next 2 weeks. How can i get over this? Help

2007-02-12 06:24:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

catching your spouse of a few years cheating on you in the bed you both share?

2007-02-12 06:23:59 · 41 answers · asked by kerri r 1

My female Irish Setter likes her new leash and enjoys running with me but sometimes gets a little wild.

2007-02-12 06:22:41 · 6 answers · asked by Reo 5

I am going to spend the weekend at my bf of 8 months mom's house. I dont know if I should sleep in the same bed as him or in a seperate room?? What would you do?

2007-02-12 06:22:03 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

BUT I DON'T HAVE MUCH MONEY AT ALL... COOKING HIM A NICE DINNER ISNT GOOD ENOUGH... I DO THAT ALL THE TIME... ANY SUGGESTIONS???

2007-02-12 06:21:47 · 1 answers · asked by shnookumz 1

okay so I had sex with my gf a couple days ago and while we were having sex she leaned back and my wang kinda made this popping noise? eck it felt like it hurt but it didn't really and my gf was like "omg did i just break somethign?" but we kept doing it and i was like no its okay...

anyways that's happened like twice and im really freaking out. everything's fine i can orgasm, get up, w/e, it's just that wierd sound what was that? any help would be GREATLY thanked for lol

2007-02-12 06:21:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really like this guy...I sometimes think to myself that he's the right guy for me. He knows I like him, but he told my homegirl that he only likes me as a friend. What should i do?????

2007-02-12 06:21:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was dating a guy for some time and I treated him like he was king. I washed his clothes, made sure he had beer in the fridge when he got off work, I gave him foot massages, dinner was always ready for him, I gave him money when he check was short and i made love to him when ever he wanted to; and yet he still cheated on me. Are there no good men left?

2007-02-12 06:20:26 · 12 answers · asked by Tammi R 2

I'm in love with someone who is completely trustworthy. But they have someone in their life that is in love with them. And even though my special someone doesn't reciprocate those feelings I still overreacte ALL the time when they're together. Because I know that they other person is completely and madly in love with my significant other. I make them upset and it causes friction between us when I can't get over this person. But I do know that my significant other is in love with me and has deomonstrated and proven it time and time again.
A while back when we weren't as serious as we are now, I did something stupid that should have cost me this relationship and I didn't own up to it until just recently, but my someone forgave me and still wants to be with me.
My question is this: Is it just me? And is it because I haven't forgiven myself? How do I get over this? I want to be able to have a stable healthy relationship with them, but I always seem to mess things up. What do I do?

2007-02-12 06:19:14 · 7 answers · asked by Musicbaby 1

Should i have done him? He winked at me and called me from his personal cell as he was leaving. so i have his #. should i call him?

2007-02-12 06:18:19 · 15 answers · asked by sweet.siren 1

What in a guys eyes tells u hes likes/loves/adore u?

2007-02-12 06:17:46 · 26 answers · asked by Cassý 1

2007-02-12 06:17:31 · 16 answers · asked by Eric Inri 6

This is for the girls who have had their hearts broken and their hopes dashed by someone too cavalier to have cared in the first place; this is for the nights spent dissecting every word and syllable and inflection in his speech, for the nights when you've returned home alone, for the nights when you've seen from across the room him leaning a little too close, or standing a little too near, or talking a little too softly for the girl he's with to be a random hookup. This is for the girls who have endured party after party in his presence, finally having realized that it wasn't that he didn't want a relationship: it was that he didn't want you. I honor you for the night his dog died or his grandmother died or his little brother crashed his car and you held him, thinking that if you only comforted him just right, or said the right words, or rubbed his back in the right way then perhaps he'd realize what it was that he already had.

2007-02-12 06:17:22 · 3 answers · asked by g13player 1

Does this guy have class or what???

2007-02-12 06:16:26 · 51 answers · asked by Turtleshell 3

2007-02-12 06:15:20 · 38 answers · asked by Manish G 2

i didnt take one for 2 months now

2007-02-12 06:15:15 · 12 answers · asked by AlvaDaGansta 4

We are broke up right now - why would he do that?

2007-02-12 06:13:28 · 16 answers · asked by baby_rost 3

2007-02-12 06:13:21 · 1 answers · asked by anne_eshah 1

I'm having serious suspicion issues with my girl...

Basically, we had a long talk about the relationship last night. After 8 years, she wanted to take a break, I told her no, we're together or we're not. I told her if we break up, it'll be the last time, and we're over for good. I re-assured her I loved and everything was fine from there.

Main thing she said was, "I don't even know whats going on with this relationship anymore.." But a week ago, we both agreed to continue the relationship, boyfriend/girlfriend, and suddenly she doesn't know whats going on??? I kept asking her, "so, are we together?" and she said, "are we?" and i said, "If you want to be" and she said, "ok... sure" Just seems weird to me. Normally she says yes, straight out.

Whats going on??

2007-02-12 06:13:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My gf and I broke up 8 months ago and I am still thinking about her, I tried e-mailing her but she wouldn't reply, I've seen her a couple of times in the mall but she keeps avoiding me so I can't do anything... Man this is stupid... What should I think? And also I've heard rumors that she has another bf, so she kinda broke her promise that she won't have any relationships just yet... Did she really love me? Or was I used for something? I thought something clicked. But still I cherished our relationship, yeah I know it sounds gay but I need to know. I'm serious

2007-02-12 06:11:08 · 14 answers · asked by Dark Valentine 2

well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also trys to get my attention alot. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. does she like me?what should i do?

2007-02-12 06:10:57 · 11 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2

My ex and I broke up a couple months ago, we were together for three years, We had broke up beacuse we were always fighting, at first when we broke up it was good, we were great friends and always hang out, but as time went on, we grew farther apart, its been about three month since the break up, now he is acting like he is over me and doesnt want to be in a relationship where their is fighting all the time, he tells people he still has feelings for me but has to ignore the feelings beacuse he dosnt want to get hurt, the last month has been bad, he goes out and partys alot and i think he might be trying to get over me, I want him to give our relationship another chance and i want him to know that i love him and I believe we can work it out, I am always up at night worried that he is going to meet someone else and that we could never be together again, how do I get him to trust me again and for him to want to be with me again, I dont want to let go beacuse three years is along time.

2007-02-12 06:10:23 · 6 answers · asked by Brooke 2