I think my girl is cheating on me.. she hides her e-mails, text messages, and deletes her phone calls... it's all over a suspicion that I have of this one guy, who I don't like, who I think she may be cheating on me with..
I told her I would not care, just be honest with me so I could move on. I told her I wanted her to be with him, and she said, "Sorry, that's not happening!" and I've basically been hinting at wanting to break up, but she just says she loves me and nothing is going on, and everything can be "worked out"
I've given her MANY chances to end the relationship, but she hasn't.. and yet she still hides and deletes her calls.. and she says nothing is going on with them two.
What should I do??
2007-02-12 06:29:48 · 18 answers · asked by eric c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would ask to meet up and then talk to her tell her your reasons for the paranoia...if there isnt anything wrong why should she delete her texts / emails / phone calls....yes you should trust her...but she should trust you enough not be hiding her phone calls if she says there 'personal'. If she still doesn't say anything possibly you end it..I see the relationship is causing you more pain than what it is happiness. That's what I would do, hope it works out for the best.
2007-02-12 14:34:27 · answer #1 · answered by unscathed_sheep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all don't be afraid of your feelings and don't tell someone else to end a relationship that you don't want to be in. This responsibility is yours. You just have to sit her down and talk to her and tell her you are flattered that she cares and loves you but you just don't feel the same and tell her why. then say I am sorry but this relationship is over, I feel like I am being lied to and since you keep deleteing and hiding things from me I have no other way of knowing that you are telling me the truth. Take care Heather
2007-02-12 14:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, what's there to "work out" if there's nothing going on with some other guy?
You've given her a chance to do the honorable thing, so now it's time to stand up for yourself and break things off. I'm sorry this happened.
2007-02-12 14:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she tells you that nothing is going on and she loves you then maybe really there is nothing going on.Maybe you are just looking for something to be wrong so it's easier for your to break up with her. If you want to break up with her just do it don't wait around because you will just hurt yourself even more. Best thing is to follow your heart and gut and if you can't trust her then end it. Good luck!
2007-02-12 14:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by luvbugs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and ask her right out why she is deleting this stuff?? Tell her how you feel like she says nothing cannot be worked out right!!
The worst thing she could do is flip out and then that's a sign right...
2007-02-12 14:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, whether you like him or not, if this guy is her FRIEND you cannot make her stop talking to him. she deleting everything cause you are trying to control her friendship and she doesn't want you to know when she has spoken to him. if you want to break up with her, then do it. but if not, then learn to except that she has friends that happen to males and you don't always have to like her friends as she does not have to like your either. stop trying to control her life and she will stop hiding stuff from you. try trusting her a little more.
2007-02-12 14:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by deeshair 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off Iam so so sorry! 2nd she is most definately cheating on you. Save yourself the extra pain and tell her it's over and why. If she cant let you know what is going on and be honest with you she doesnt deserve someone nice like you.
2007-02-12 14:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are "her" e-mails, text messages and phone calls any of your business?? Do you pay the bill? Give the girl some privacy
2007-02-12 14:35:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put her on a lind tell her i am leaving right now and its over, or you stop this childish game of erasing texts and calls.
2007-02-12 14:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by Loco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋