I am going to spend the weekend at my bf of 8 months mom's house. I dont know if I should sleep in the same bed as him or in a seperate room?? What would you do?
2007-02-12 06:22:03 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 19 yrs old and he is 24...when he visits me in my apartment he sleeps in my bed...duh! But idk if it is appropriate...and we are NOT sexually active..
2007-02-12 06:31:31 · update #1
I would sleep where "mom" indicated I should sleep...if she doesn't care for y'all to share a bed then she'll make other arrangements for you...if she's okay with it then go for it, provided YOU are okay with it as well.
2007-02-12 06:25:42 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you guys have been intimate then its cool to sleep in the same bed but since you guys ae staying at him mom's then you should sleep in a seperate room unless she says its cool
2007-02-12 06:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by Meka_Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can resist temptation, sleep in the same bed. If you can't keep your hands off of each other, different beds. Just out of respect to his mom.
2007-02-12 06:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by **Angel_Eyes** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his mom is ok with it then there should be no problem sleeping in the same bed if your comfortable around him. If she doesn't allow it then sleep in another room.
2007-02-12 06:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HMMM depends on his Mom and how she would react to that. How old are you both? Do you live together and her know it? If Not, then maybe at least for now, sleep in another bedroom or your BF on the couch, just to keep peace.
2007-02-12 06:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to mom, it's her house and her rules. I would say since you are "adults" it's ok to sleep in the same bed.
2007-02-12 06:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are an adult, it's upto you. If you're under 18, it is better to show some respect by sleeping in different rooms. Because both of you are still under your parent's control.
2007-02-12 06:29:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriends sleeps at my house every weekend and we sleep in the same bed, it also depends on how old you are i guess but i would say the same bed
2007-02-12 06:26:38 · answer #8 · answered by Italian Chick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on age and also what you are comfortable with and what his mother is comfortable with. Always ask for separate beds and see what lead his mom and your bf take. That way at least you are trying to be respectful of her home.
2007-02-12 06:25:53 · answer #9 · answered by jessica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you are at Mom's house, probably should be 2 rooms.
2007-02-12 06:24:57 · answer #10 · answered by John G 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋