used to sleep with this guy, until i discovered he wasn't making a committment.. so i left him alone.. i realised that he never took me out, called me only when he wanted some etc.. since i stopped sleeping with him, he has made various attempts.. flirting endlessly inspite of my distant behaviour.. today, he kept asking me how am doing and i said great, which is the truth!, then i asked him and he said he wanted to see me so he could give me a hug, then he asked me what i was doing tonight and i said not quite sure. anyway, he said he's gonna call me tonight! back then, i would have been glad to hear him say those words, but i'm no longer interested.. i mean i still like him, but i'm now dating someone who treats me really well and i can't get involved with the ex cuz i've got something good now! what do you think the ex wants and how should i handle him??? ps: my other ex be4 this one keeps calling me, too!
2007-02-12 06:33:07 · 7 answers · asked by God's own 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop stringing them on as friends and drop them...you sound like youre too nice of a "break-up"
2007-02-12 06:37:22 · answer #1 · answered by vapeaceout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
. relatively, I have been given a situation with that... as a results of fact I continually believed that no-one could be compelled to love or maybe like somebody he / she dislikes and reveals repugnant. Thank goodness your case isn't that excessive and there remains a great threat to get issues to artwork out properly. You pronounced you probably did sense love and devotion for him mutually as you have been engaged yet as quickly as being married you do no longer sense those issues anymore for him… i assume you have had such different romantic techniques how your marriage may well be like and fantasized approximately it a lot and without caution you detect out that daily lifestyles could be purely very extraordinary as quickly as the honeymoon has finished. It exceeded off to you, to me, to a lot of human beings… even though it’s basically a small disaster all and sundry has when you have married. purely think of what might have exceeded off in case you will possibly have married your ex… and please be honest! Don’t loose your self in romantic techniques and wishful questioning. purely think of approximately on a regular basis lifestyles, your on a regular basis duties, and the duties of your husband, the strain, and artwork… in case you're honest in the direction of your husband and your self you will understand that married lifestyles mutually with your ex might have grew to become into the comparable ordinary… It´s purely unfair to think of that yours mutually with your ex could have been a honeymoon for all eternity. improve up and mature! And conversing approximately elegance… gosh! What the hell is elegance?? at present somebody may well be captivating and day after today loose his elegance… besides, formerly marriage you recognised your husband as captivating, actual? So now your ideas and coronary heart is packed with shadows and that´s why you do no longer see the excellent thing approximately the different individual anymore. you're making a great mistake and in case you don´t get actual you will in all possibility loose the main needed individual on your lifestyles who's your husband. attempt to be happy and attempt to apply each and every of the loose time you ought to spend it mutually with your husband. Make love and not conflict! you will see which you're married with the the suitable option guy and that he unquestionably has his elegance to boot and what's much extra significant, a solid coronary heart. solid success, i'm hoping you prevail.
2016-12-17 14:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by condon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to hang out with you and get laid; if you're not interested, you need to let him know that. If you never asked him to leave you alone - then what are you complaining about?
2007-02-12 06:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex wants sex, just like mine. Ditch him and keep the good guy.
And tell your other one to call me! LOL
2007-02-12 06:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, men will do, what us women allow them to do. Stop allowing them to do this to you. Be strong, you have a good thing now, don't mess it up..Your X's only want you, when they cannot have you. Use your head...
2007-02-12 06:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants some! or he has had a change of heart. pick the choice you like better and go with your instinct
2007-02-12 06:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by C.W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone he is a user! keep the good one!
2007-02-12 06:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋