Okay, I'm assuming he's shy because I can't figure out what else he is....he's got me baffled! Usually (in my experience), guys have always been pretty easy to figure out, but not this one.
I always thought he was interested (stares, tends to be where I'm going to be, etc), so finally I offered him lunch. We got together and found out we have tons in common (so much, it's actually kinda creepy).
Then we made (or I made) a suggestion for a future get-together. He accepted, but then sorta disappeared without giving me a way to reach him.
Then a month later, he came to see me at work and acted very interested again (I know I didn't imagine it). So we decided to get together again the following week, which we did. But during that time, he almost seemed to want to be friends only...just a feeling I picked up.
Now, I'm waiting for him to show up again - I have no way to reach him. I almost get the feeling he wants to control what happens (or doesn't happen) between us.
Any ideas?
2007-02-12 06:30:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is tricky...you have to take the lead and ask him straight out if he wants to date u..he could be already in a relationship also.
2007-02-20 00:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should really ask him about the relationships that he had with girls before, by asking him about previous dates you will learn how he dealt with them, how he lets them know that he likes them, and just general feelings that he feels about dating. That would give you clues of the type of guy he is.
2007-02-12 06:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by Saphire04 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
he definetly wants some control. maybe in a past relationship the girl walked all over him. anyways ask for his number/email whatever so that y'all can talk.
2007-02-12 06:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by C.W. 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
U sure hes not a gay or somethin?
2007-02-12 06:35:38 · answer #4 · answered by pheonix9991 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋