This past weekend was the start of a very bad week, my brother used my jeep to go to a party, and when he was leaving, someone broke my drivers side window and was trying to steal my ride, so now i have no window and it started to rain and will continue to rain for the week, now i know V-day is coming up, and yet again i am alone for another depressing holiday. Im just feeling down on myself today, and feeling very unattractive and blah. I could just scream and hide in my closet for the next 2 weeks. How can i get over this? Help
2007-02-12 06:24:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you all for all your uplifting ideas, I will definately try and look at the brighter side and realize I'm not the only one, and there are people out there with bigger and more important problems. Thanks again
2007-02-13 03:45:04 · update #1
Do something for yourself...Don't worry about the Holiday...hang out with your Mom or something. Sit in with some friends and watch movies and eat popcorn...thats what my sister does when she is sad. Please don't be sad I am sure your beautiful and I really don't think you need someone on V-Day to realize that. One day you will have everything you want so Chin up!!!
2007-02-12 06:34:48 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes kind of that... You made a good question. I can apply it to my self, in earlier time... If you have experienced a boring environment or whatever, bad friends and that you seeem to end up in problems etc time after time, then you could have been mentally numbed in a way you forget that the way you live, is not a good one. If you have struggled and it has become a steady pattern. You should be glad, you should feel comfort, you be happy and laugh, you should love someone and be loved. If a person has been this "numbed", it can take some time to re-gain the open consciousness about it, it may start with more or vivid dreaming and nervousness etc. It is, now for you, a step in your life, an insight, at least insight that you want or should need more insights. Once you have this awareness, you may still think that you don't know what to do. Then just think, I don't know what and how but I wish I can. That you have to kind of reprogram yourself. And since the solutions may not be there not, to reprogram the vison of paths you would want bla bla bla (!) Even if you don't feel depressed, think technically then, the way you live, is it a way that will lead you on, or are you standing still? care to tell more?
2016-05-24 01:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if you cant get it fixed soon then just cover the door with something. I know that isnt very appealing but it'll keep the rain out. THEN, remember that V-day is a holiday for singles too, and a great one at that, so get ready to go out to your favorite club and party your @$$ off! Make it an awesome holiday, probably a hot guy you'll run into thats had a bad week too.... good luck
2007-02-12 06:32:50 · answer #3 · answered by Heath B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some plastic for your window and go for a long ride. I'm going to spend some time writing instead of thinking on how it sucks being single. SO find your own way to take your mind off the single thing and be happy with the free time.
2007-02-12 06:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go get out and get your nails done or something. Don't worry about this holiday its just another day. when all your friends are spending money on their boyfriends laugh at them and say your spending you money on youself. Everyone has bad days it will pass but while their here make the best of it. Cover your window with something to keep the rain out and go shopping!
2007-02-12 06:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im depressed too but dont worry there's always a silver lining cheer up ok? look look make this face =D now this =) now this n_n k then byby
T_T is an option but u can use this one O_o + O_O or this one u_u k well thanx 4 the pointz!
2007-02-12 06:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by UndeadNitemare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go volunteer at a local homeless shelter or soup kitchen.
You will see people who have real problems but they will smile when they see all those who think of them and come to help them.
You will realize how lucky you are to have what you have (even you're annoying brother) and you'll find out that you are a very happy person, indeed!!
2007-02-12 06:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by FERNANDO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go buy yourself a card, a box of candy and some flowers. Write on the card, "Dear wonderful girl, I love you and I always will! Love, me"
Then cover the broken window with plastic.
2007-02-12 06:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
make ur bro pay for the window then just wait for the right guy to come along and my feeling is that no one is unattractive every one is beautiful there is more then one look and every one just happens to going for the un healthy skinny fake look and thats the worst so ur attractive just not in the way that is fake and skinny ur attitde is what makes u beautiful and no one but u can change that....... hope that helps
2007-02-12 06:35:52 · answer #9 · answered by *kitten* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do not worry about it plenty of people are lonley around this holiday your not the only one!! and so am i!! and iam sorry about your jeep just cover up your jeep window and go out and treat yourself to some partying fun!!!!!! "turn that frown upside down"
2007-02-12 06:30:28 · answer #10 · answered by alex t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋