My ex and I broke up a couple months ago, we were together for three years, We had broke up beacuse we were always fighting, at first when we broke up it was good, we were great friends and always hang out, but as time went on, we grew farther apart, its been about three month since the break up, now he is acting like he is over me and doesnt want to be in a relationship where their is fighting all the time, he tells people he still has feelings for me but has to ignore the feelings beacuse he dosnt want to get hurt, the last month has been bad, he goes out and partys alot and i think he might be trying to get over me, I want him to give our relationship another chance and i want him to know that i love him and I believe we can work it out, I am always up at night worried that he is going to meet someone else and that we could never be together again, how do I get him to trust me again and for him to want to be with me again, I dont want to let go beacuse three years is along time.
2007-02-12 06:10:23 · 6 answers · asked by Brooke 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Three years is a long time but its so not worth it if your going to fight all the time.. move on and find someone that you get along with.
Good luck!
2007-02-12 06:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by Christie G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth is, he may be the type that enjoys knowing that you are itching to get him back. If so, that probably is a more enjoyable feeling for him than actually being with you. Wait it out, go on with your life, Im sure you guys will meet again and if he notices you out having a good time and he suspects that you arent constantly wanting him anymore........ his mind might change (Im a guy... been there) Good luck
2007-02-12 14:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by Heath B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with your girlfriend and have fun, dont worry about what he is doing or saying to anyone, but dont go where he is or you will have no fun and he will just get angry and think you are following him. if he is telling your friends he still has feelings for you it sounds to me like he wants to go do what he wants to do and have you sitting at home being miserable worrying about what he is doing. what he has at this point by doing that is complete control over you, nobody should have control over you but you. you broke up for a reason. if its meant to be then somewher in the future you will run into him and work things out.
2007-02-12 14:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go and find a new man
2007-02-12 14:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by weege 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go. you may look desperate if you keep holding on trying to get him to come back.
2007-02-12 14:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by aaron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you find out let me know- i have the same question!:0)
2007-02-12 14:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by Kimberlyan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋