Singles & Dating - 11 February 2007

so there's this guy i went out on a date with a couple of weeks ago and we kissed. things became awkward at school and i heard that he told this girl that he didn't want anything serious. being apart prideful species, i brushed it off and said the same. i wrote him a message saying i really like him but i don't want anything serious from this. he wrote back and said he feels the same...and that he'd call me sometime. but i feel that he just said that because i said that and didn't want to look like the desperate one. i actually REALLY like him and wouldn't mind dating.
how can i let him know this? valentines day perhaps? i sent him a rose through this thing my school does for valentines day and i know the person in charge of it so i think they're going to let me deliver it personally. like i was going to dress up like a gorrilla (with the words love monkey on my back) and take it to him in class.
advice?
any other cute ways of delivering it?

2007-02-11 15:41:21 · 5 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1

As an expert in the field of relationships I have spent much of my life studying the reasons why romances do or don't work out, but I am interested to hear your experiences and to know what behaviour you prefer from your partner - and what you'd prefer them not to do!

2007-02-11 15:40:24 · 184 answers · asked by Dr John Demartini 1

Well I need revenge on my ex-boyfriend. Heres the story.

Well we were going out for 4 monthes and he has been bitter and rude ever since we broke-up. I broke-up with him because he cheated on me. And that just kills me inside everyday. He keeps emailing me making up lies. Telling my friends lies about me.

For example: I was hanging out with my friend Enosh today. Witch is the guy my best friend likes. I was not flirting at all. Strictly friend. And he told my best friend that I was playing "dirty games" with him. And making people mad at me.

I'm sick of it. Help me please. I dont know what to do. And right when we broke-up he got a new girlfriend. And he keeps calling me things like, "slu*" "bitc*". And he told me to go to hell! I'm not sure what to do anymore!

2007-02-11 15:39:38 · 17 answers · asked by Elise. 2

For the past few years i've been dating and all of my relationships have ended horribly because my girlfriend has eathier cheated on me or was so with me that she drove me crazy. now i'm afraid that if i go out with another woman that my relationship will just end the same way. how can i get rid of these fears and get my confidence back?

2007-02-11 15:39:05 · 10 answers · asked by Scott 1

There is this guy that I like a whole bunch but one of my best friends likes him too. He has told her multiple times that he doesn't like her as more than a friend. She has asked me if I like him and I told her no but I feel so bad lying to one of my best friends. I really like this guy but I don't want to hurt my friends feelings.
Please help me!
I don't know what to do.
=/

2007-02-11 15:38:53 · 7 answers · asked by softballchickk<3 2

ok plz help me theres this girl that sits in front of me and she ask me to let her borrow my stuff i let her borrow it then 1 day i let her borrow my pencil i said she can keep it and the next day she said the pencil i gave her broke and i said my freinds snaped mine shes starts to laugh a little and she keeps on looking the rite dirrection and left so i want to know if she likes me plz help and what other ways can u tell a girl likes u? plz thnkx i normally woudl never do this but i really like this girl lol

2007-02-11 15:38:04 · 9 answers · asked by shark slayer 2

okay...so since apperently you can't take them away...in about how long do they go away?..

2007-02-11 15:37:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this friend that has been there for me since the third grade and we are currently in eleventh and going to graduate, I am moving to panama soon, and he says he going with eventually, which is putting some distance between us. My symptoms: I miss him intensely even though im not gone yet and sometimes cry, when talk on the phone I feel really happy, I feel an intense disire to be next to him and possibly kiss him, I think about him alot, and I felt a certain amount of jealousy last year when he told me he had a girlfriend. He has also kissed me a few times. He sends me messages telling me he cant sleep late at night because he is thinking about me.
Details about me:
Im 17 years old
we know everything about each other.
my friend doesn't how I feel about him
Im very outgoing, honest, and fun-loving
about him:
he is 17 years old
knows everything about me
very smart
very funny, little more reserved than me, an achiever, and hard worker.
What should I do?

2007-02-11 15:36:27 · 4 answers · asked by rockinrobyn132000 1

Should i get a girl i like 12 roses or 6?

2007-02-11 15:35:39 · 13 answers · asked by Davis 1

wat can u do 4 her to have feelings towards u? and somehow how will she like u?and what should u do?

2007-02-11 15:34:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend told me that girls normally have no idea that a guy likes them until they tell them straight up that they do? Even if i made it plainly obvious that i liked a girl, she wouldnt know? Just curious cuz i went to a party lately and this girl was there that i like and i was all smiles and starry eyed and i KNOW she looked at me at least a hand full of times... she still wouldnt know??
i mean id know if a girl liked me...

2007-02-11 15:34:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

seeee well my and bf have been on and off for almost 10 months
so far its been steady for 3 :( ............ i think he will get bored of me what do you think................... i try to talk about him but he says "hes not like that" so should i believe him (((((((((( but the way were 13 hehe :) ))))))))) and i think hes "the one " and dont say im too young becuz belelive me hes not my 1st :)

2007-02-11 15:34:06 · 6 answers · asked by Jennifer 1

We've always been like "the couple" But the last week we have been fighting about stupid little things... I dont know what to do.

2007-02-11 15:33:54 · 3 answers · asked by misty 2

so i like this guy,alot and im pretty sure he likes me. and its valintines day soon and i really want him to ask me to be his valintine. I am flirting with him and being nice and stuff,but does anyone have any ways or tips for me to win him over? I really like him and i really want a valintine. any tips at all!

2007-02-11 15:33:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has moved out, I have 3 older children from my first husband and 2 from him. I'm far from ugly and have a good job. My kids are good kids but i am afraid no one will want me now since i have 5 children. Maybe he is right...?????

2007-02-11 15:33:45 · 5 answers · asked by hurtalloveragainks 1

Why is it so hard to let get over some jerk who hurt u so much and who treats u like crap?

2007-02-11 15:31:39 · 18 answers · asked by Onie 4

weve been going out since the 8th but weve been dropping hint of liking eachother for a while wat should i get?

2007-02-11 15:31:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright this is a bit complicated bare with me. Im 15, a bit young to date i see your point dont waste my time and dont answer. this girl and i really like each other but we live 30-40 minutes from each other. We talk ALOT. I told her its not that far and our parents are willing to drive and our older siblings said theyd drive, and we can go to parties in between our locations, and there are dances. I told her we would see each other often. She refuses to believe this and doesnt want to be hurt. IS there anything i can say or do besides showing her my plan will work, because i started using it and its worked out so far, shes skeptical itll fall apart. And in a year will both be driving and well see each other more often. She is just worried about being hurt. How do i ease her fears.

2007-02-11 15:31:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend has had this crush on this guy since the day she saw him. this boy has a girl friend already but she is thinking of telling him that she likes him. do you think it is a good idea? would he freak out? answers are appreciated

2007-02-11 15:29:32 · 22 answers · asked by Boffin 2

ok i was on my boyfriends(he 19 n im 18) myspace like jus checkin his page n there sum younger girl who 16 tryin to flirt n w/ him n she was sayin o y dun we play one on one n ok ur a noughty boy... n i made a lie to my boyfriend sayin dat my friends b/f cheated her he was tryin to hool up sum girl n then we had a discusion bout how wat we would do if we caught eachother cheatin or flirtin w/ sumone else n he was like "id be pissed at da guy but more at u n leave u" n he was like wat about u? n i told him " id be reall mad at da hoochie but mostly u b/c u told me u loved me...if u loved me u wouldnt have done it, u lost my trust n it would be hard to say good bye but id do it, its not fair to me b/c then u would have misled me n then dat would have meant u didnt love me at all." n ten i checked his page again n he had deleted all of her comments...n i asked him " well baby i dun have worry bout u cheatin on me rite? he was like idk y u would ask me dat u no i wouldnt...

2007-02-11 15:28:58 · 2 answers · asked by GiiGii 2

what does that mean when a girl i am dating said we should both wait... we have a mutual understanding though...and we both like each other.....

2007-02-11 15:28:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have inverted nipples and I'm very self-conscious about them. I'm 16 and I was just curious as to if those types of nipples are a turn off for guys? Or if you saw them, you'd think they were weird?

2007-02-11 15:28:06 · 6 answers · asked by turn_up_theradio 1

Here's my story...
There's a girl who sits next to me in my physics class. I think she's attractive, but I don't really talk to her. I sort of freeze when I try to. I just get so nervous.
What's a good way to break the ice?

2007-02-11 15:27:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean like whether its lust, pity, or sumthin how do you tell? PLEAZE HELP ME!!!!!!!!

2007-02-11 15:27:51 · 3 answers · asked by DAT CHICK 2

OK..

soooo

Valentines day is wednesday.

I need to do something special for my girlfriend.

She likes cute things, surprises, romance...etc..


What would make her want to brag to people this thursday at school?


HELP

2007-02-11 15:27:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and this guy are really feeling each other but recently my family found out i was dating him.The problem is that he is older than me and my family does not want me to talk to him.Me and him established we were still going to date each other.But when my family said they were goin to call the police i got scared for him.He said he's not worried ,but i am.I dont want anything to happen to him.So i started only seeing him at night just until we both move away next week.He got mad and said he feels like a late noght booty call and that he does not like it.I exlpained to him were risking more by going out in the day,my family could see us and tell or part of his family etc..He still doesnt understand how i feel.I dont want to see him in jail or be the reason he cant see his daughter because hes in jail.So we broke up but now im missing him a whole lot and its only been a day and a half!I want to call him and see him but i dont want to start problems and mislead him.I love him a whole lot.

2007-02-11 15:27:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

like no more then 5 years older or younger?

Im 24 and dating a chick who is 18...

2007-02-11 15:26:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so me and my 2 friends were at a birthday party and the dj's cousin was our age and cute, my friend summer went to ask his name and then she had to leave and then me and him started talking. We are now good enough friends and he asked me to be his valentine and i said yes and now my friend summer is mad and is saying i did it on purpose and i am confused because i had no clue she was obsessed for him. My other friend that was at the party is on her side but im saying its just a valentine its nothing! but they are saying its the same as going out. I need your opinion but please dont be hurtful, is it my fault or are they not understanding this...i already told her if she wants him ill back off but shes still mad and blaming me.

2007-02-11 15:26:29 · 10 answers · asked by amandacupcake 2

I have been seperated from my ex now for one year. I broke it off f because he was jealous and unhappy. He is a good person and we connect and understand each other and he is my best friend in the whole world, but he suffers with anxiety and depression and he has never made any steps to try to help himself. I attempted to help him by doing many things with him, like taking him skydiving and trying new things to get him excited about life, but nothing worked. I told him that if he wanted to keep me around that he was going to have to get help, but he didnt do it so I left him. I am now doing very well in life and have a new boyfriend who is wonderful to me, but I cannot stop thinking about my ex. I love him and miss him very much and have recently found out that he has recently been seeing a therapist and joined a support group for people that suffer with anxiety and depression. He is a very stubborn personand I have hard time visualizing him changing. What should I do?

2007-02-11 15:26:24 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1

I broke up with my partner 3 weeks ago, how long should I wait before entering into another relationship?

2007-02-11 15:24:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous