seeee well my and bf have been on and off for almost 10 months
so far its been steady for 3 :( ............ i think he will get bored of me what do you think................... i try to talk about him but he says "hes not like that" so should i believe him (((((((((( but the way were 13 hehe :) ))))))))) and i think hes "the one " and dont say im too young becuz belelive me hes not my 1st :)
2007-02-11 15:34:06 · 6 answers · asked by Jennifer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually, I'm not going to say you're too young because, quite frankly, I first dated my fiance when I was 13-14 years old. Never the less, there was a 6 year gap of the off and on thing, but sometimes you just need some time to grow up and get a good perspective on things. He dumped me twice in middle school, yes I'll repeat that.....twice. Naturally I was heartbroken because he was my so called childhood sweetheart. He didn't understand or even really know what he wanted at the time, which I mean, come on, we were 13 and 14. You're not really suppose to know that kind of stuff at that age, not because you're feelings aren't genuine, just lack of experience in life. In that 6 year off period, I learned that no one compared to him, and it took him getting hurt to understand what he had done and what he then, needed to do. He called me up this past march and wouldn't take no for an answer. Not that I wouldn't have said yes, I just wanted him to understand the seriousness of "this is your last chance, buddy." And yeah, I called him out on his past decisions. And he explained himself and apologized sincerely telling me what a huge mistake he made. He proposed on christmas day, and needless to say, I said yes.
Sometimes they just need a little time to realize what they lost.
So if he does leave you again, whether it be from boredom or anything else, just let it go. If he comes back tomorrow or even years later having realized the mistakes, let him explain and tell you he's sorry. Maybe you can get a little gravaling too, lol. If he doesn't return, it means he's not the one. Keep searching.
2007-02-11 15:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can really never tell what guys are thinking. Take if from a girl that knows. I know what you are going through. Just try not to get mad at him, don't nag, none of that. Do stuff together, talk on the phone, you know hang out, do fun stuff, and he shouldnt get bored with you! The only real reason guys get bored with their girlfriends is when they start not liking them, because of something they do! So don't piss him off and you should be good, well good luck!
2007-02-11 15:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by girlofyourdreams_6905 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont think of negative things about he being bored. or it would be the opposite :P just continue ur relationship with him. Dont worry so much. Your just 13!
2007-02-11 16:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are young..is it simply the truth.
well if the relationship has been on and off ...then maybe you should move on and find someone you can be steady with..instead of being insecure of the relationship is headed.
2007-02-11 15:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you aren't too young then I won't tell you that youa re but he sounds immature and hard to talk to.....also...what is your definition of "steady"??????
2007-02-11 15:39:11 · answer #5 · answered by London 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not ur 1st what?..
IM me on aim if u got it
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and im like 16 im not 50 somethin
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illl give u advice if ya im me
2007-02-11 15:38:52 · answer #6 · answered by Bryce. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋