Me and this guy are really feeling each other but recently my family found out i was dating him.The problem is that he is older than me and my family does not want me to talk to him.Me and him established we were still going to date each other.But when my family said they were goin to call the police i got scared for him.He said he's not worried ,but i am.I dont want anything to happen to him.So i started only seeing him at night just until we both move away next week.He got mad and said he feels like a late noght booty call and that he does not like it.I exlpained to him were risking more by going out in the day,my family could see us and tell or part of his family etc..He still doesnt understand how i feel.I dont want to see him in jail or be the reason he cant see his daughter because hes in jail.So we broke up but now im missing him a whole lot and its only been a day and a half!I want to call him and see him but i dont want to start problems and mislead him.I love him a whole lot.
2007-02-11 15:27:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you? If you really love him, and you are of age of consent then fine go be with him, no matter what people say! True love you dont wanna miss out on. If your parents or whoever called the cops, what would they tell him, they wouldnt really have anything to go on. If your family gets mad because you want to be with him, than thats not right. You have to explain to them how you feel & how happy he makes you. They should be happy for you, not trying to keep you away from him! I would call the guy though, and just tell him that you love him & dont want nothing to happen to you guys. Like don't want to lose him, and etc. That should atleast make him feel better. If you don't call him he will probally think that you don't care or are blowing him off. So you better get to calling him!! =) Good luck, hopefully everything works out for you two! Keep me posted atleast!!! <3
2007-02-11 15:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by girlofyourdreams_6905 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are not 18 yet. Sorry mommy and daddy rule and they are doing what is right. As young ones we rarely see the whole picture as far as where we are at a point in time. Parents do. We think they are mean when all they are is right.
If you really there is a love thing between the two of you then it will still be there if you never see each other for 10 years. When you are 18 and you still want each other then go for it. Hopefully you won't be screwing up your life at that point
2007-02-11 15:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by sandra_k19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple answer..
do u love him
it seams that he loves u, but all things considered, take a good long look at the relationship....what is the real question, of why your parents don't like him, are u like 15 or something and he is 30, then that is not good, but if u are a consenting adult and so is he then by all means be together (throws rice for the up and coming wedding) bit premature i admit...but one has to listen to family at a point it becomes unless to discuss it, since it is taboo to talk about it, then think long and hard bout this, cause the outcome will only get worse, plus if u really did love him u would've not broke up for anything as mundane as jail, love is eternal, it can destroy anything it touches but it can also empower to shake the universe......
2007-02-11 15:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by funboy98935 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 06:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by swailes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your family does not want you to see him, than wait until your 18. If you are under 18 and he is over, then don't see him at all because it is illegal.
2007-02-11 15:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by crashedata 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your underage and if you are and he's an adult your much better off leaving him alone he can and will end up in jail.
2007-02-11 15:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by Robert C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him
2007-02-11 15:29:30 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is the age difference? How old are both of you? Please advise. Thx!
2007-02-11 15:30:49 · answer #8 · answered by Shorty06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are both of you?
2007-02-11 15:30:15 · answer #9 · answered by Christina H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yommy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-11 15:32:40 · answer #10 · answered by santa s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋