I need help please. revenge?

Question

Well I need revenge on my ex-boyfriend. Heres the story.

Well we were going out for 4 monthes and he has been bitter and rude ever since we broke-up. I broke-up with him because he cheated on me. And that just kills me inside everyday. He keeps emailing me making up lies. Telling my friends lies about me.

For example: I was hanging out with my friend Enosh today. Witch is the guy my best friend likes. I was not flirting at all. Strictly friend. And he told my best friend that I was playing "dirty games" with him. And making people mad at me.

I'm sick of it. Help me please. I dont know what to do. And right when we broke-up he got a new girlfriend. And he keeps calling me things like, "slu*" "bitc*". And he told me to go to hell! I'm not sure what to do anymore!

Answer 1

He's such a child honey. Go directly to him stand in his face and tell him he needs to get over you. Confront him, if he says something dumb to you tell him you're going to file harrassment charges. If you're in school, tell him you're going to tell the principal that he keeps harrassing you. Tell your father or older brother, I bet he'll stop then. If you're best friend is your best friend she wouldn't be listening to anything he says anyway. One of my ex's cheated on me and after we broke up he was going around spreading rumors about me. The same day I heard that he was doing it, I went directly up to him and cussed him out in front of the whole school and he got embarrassed. I felt bad afterward and was going to apologize but he stopped coming to school. Good luck sweetie!

Answer 2

Hun I am not exactly the sort of person that tells people to "just let it go", but revenge might be a bit strong in this instance.

I would suggest you send out a single e-mail to all parties involved in this. To every single friend, to his new girl and to him ofcourse - inviting them all to a specific place at the same time. Make it clear in the email that you are doing this so that the truth can come out once and for all. Tell everyone (who doesn't already know) that he is making up terrible stories about you and want it to end. DO NOT spread untrue rumours about him, that won't do you any good.

Then one of two things will happen. He will either be too bloody embarrassed to show up (in which case everyone will know he is a fool) or he will show up and have to face you infront of everyone and explain why he feels the need to lie. If you don't mean anything to him, then why does he keep thinking of ways to have you a part of his life??? Ask infront of his new girl if she knows how much time and energy he is still spending on you and whether she is satisfied with being someone's second best!

After this you will also know who your real friends are. The ones that believe his lies are not worth a minute of your time - the ones who stood by you all through this, are work keeping around.

Good luck and remember - it might not be easy to take the high road, but I promise (from personal experience) revenge doesn't always solve a problem.

Answer 3

It might be easier to just ignore it. But he might go as far as hurting you physically. I was going to tell you to do the same thing to him that he is doing to you. But, what he is doing is creepy. Let him tell people lies about you. If they are your Friends they know he is lying and so don't worry about that. Let everyone know that you broke up with him and why. They will know he is making up stuff because he is mad at you. Do they know he cheated on you? Be sure every girl he comes in contact knows and hopefully they will stay the hell away from the cheater. I believe once a cheater always a cheater. He is being a selfish immature baby. Just remember that more then anything when everyone is mad at you.

Answer 4

Revenge is silly---you must be a bunch of kids. Just get away and stay away--ignore everything--it will stop when you find other stuff to do. It is as silly as the whole story---immature actions all the way. grow up---he cheated?? It hurts so be glad to be rid of him and be a little bit more selective with your choice of boys to date. 4 months---that's hardly a reason to be all in a tizzy...your dating will go on for a long time --settle down

Answer 5

He is obviously bitter that u didnt let him get away with cheating so good on u for that!! Talk to ur friends first so they know exactly what hes doin, tho if they are real friends they would have realised hes lyin. You could try tellin ppl he has a small one, but if u r too young for that throw eggs on him or sumthin..

Answer 6

The best way to make him look like the a$@hole is to ignore him and keep telling everybody how sorry you feel for him. And that it's a real shame he has to act like that especially what happened to him 2 years ago. Make everybody use their own imagination. Trust me nothing could be worse.

Answer 7

Alright, this guy sounds like he's just jealous. Your best option is to talk to your friends about it and tell them that none of it is true, and just flat out ignore it. If you believe it isn't true, then it's not.

And maybe for fun, if anyone asks about you or just says anything to you, just tell them that he said those things because he is mad about how small his weiner is. And that he only has 1 testicle. That'll get him.

Hope this helped.

Answer 8

Just keep your distance. Revenge won't fix anything. Let him lie through his teeth. The more outrageous the better. Pretty soon, no one will believe a word he says.

Answer 9

Girl he sounds like an @$$ wipe! I say distract yourself, hang out with friends etc. Move on with your life...Karma is a B$#^%ch don't let him get to you! The more you do the more he will do it. Keep your head up girl! good luck!

Answer 10

He not worth your anger, revenge is not the answer, let it go. You are only hurting yourself. Try to ignore it, it will blow over.