wat can u do 4 her to have feelings towards u? and somehow how will she like u?and what should u do?
2007-02-11 15:34:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok.. if she has a man and she is happy then let the girl be. If she shows interest in you then approach her..but if not then just leave her alone and move on. Don't mislead YOURSELF. Good luck!
2007-02-11 15:36:49 · answer #1 · answered by Shorty06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Realistically, not much.
Either the attraction is there, or it isn't.
There are plenty of other people out there for you. You just have to look. I've been in this situation when I was younger and I held this notion that persistence could pay off, but that is rarely the case. Most of the time it is wasted energy.
You can't force someone to like you, because you can't alter the way they think. Only they themselves can control that. You can influence it, but if she has made it clear that she is not interested, then if you do like her, you will spare her future awkward moments of trying to turn you down politely.
Look at it this way, there may be someone out there for you that you haven't noticed yet that is currently single, but if you spend the next couple of months focusing this wasted energy, when you do notice someone else, it may be too late.
It will be okay. Good luck to you.
2007-02-11 23:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by Steve A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why try hard to get her attention when there are a lot of fishes in the ocean? Clearly, the girl is not interested in you....
Move on, if a girl doesnt like you,she will never ever like you even if you will cross 7 mountains, give her the moon..you get my point... but if she likes you, she will be the one asking this question =)
2007-02-11 23:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by Proud Espanyol 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't do anything but leave her alone and move on. In the remote possiblity that she breaks up with her boyfriend and her feelings for you change, she's much more likely to be into you if you haven't been pestering her. But the odds of that happening aren't very likely, so you're better of spending your time with girls who are available and do like you.
2007-02-11 23:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by cg17 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, there really isn't much you can do. Either a girl likes you or she doesn't. The fact that she has a boyfriend and that you are not him just makes it all too painfully clear.
Besides, if you really could "steer her your way," wouldn't it follow that she would more than likely leave you for another as well?
2007-02-11 23:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by calledkevinalot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you can only attract a girl if her boyfriend is not treating her right. If that was the case she would have liked you. 2nd, that guy has worked hard for his girlfriend - just move on to a different girl - because your going to only be friends - and that sucks.
2007-02-11 23:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by Channel T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey--slow down----she has a guy now??? Do you want a bloody nose?? Set your sights on an available girl---face reality--she is taken...if you do anything silly, she won't want anything to do with you. How would you feel if a guy did this to you?? Get a grip and move on
2007-02-11 23:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't like you? What makes you think that? Bag that negative thought. Think positive.
What you should do is hang around, be cool. She'll get tired of the loser she is with now and you will want to be there when that happens.
Good luck and keep your zipper zipped.
2007-02-11 23:40:24 · answer #8 · answered by P W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should leave her alone and find someone else. To many fish in the sea to be messing with a girl that already has someone.
2007-02-11 23:37:13 · answer #9 · answered by ஐ♥Gin♥ஐ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationships suck man, they only cause pain in the end.
I'd say get over it, but if u got ur mind fixed on this girl, than you should be able to handle this on your own.hint, hint, (talk to her)
2007-02-11 23:49:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋