ok, I've been freinds with this guy for years now. We have the most amazing friendship I have every had. Some time ago we began cuddling, nothing more. I realized I thought of him in more than a friend manner, and told him (I was drunk). He eventually told me he was worried about damaging the friendship we had, he said he was worried I'd be disappointed in him, or that he'd hurt me. He made it really clear that he doesn't want to jeopardize what we do have, and I DO agree. It would be far worse to NOT have him in my life, than keep it "just friends"... Here's the dilema... Last week it occurred to me that I am actually in love with him. I will NOT tell him that, but I'm now having a hard time being near him, because it hurts... Can a man and a woman every really just be friends? And what do I do now? I want to hang out with him still, but it's very hard knowing I can't have him...
2007-02-07
07:26:02
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