Okay letz say you and your boyfriend were dating for 3years now and he tells you that he likes another chick but he still loves you how do you handle that? I have a boyfriend who has done that to me i forgave him and everything but im not sure if he wants to b with me?
2007-02-07 07:29:00 · 21 answers · asked by Kheyah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would be quite worried..! But..if he says he loves you take his word.! Dont keep on moaning about it.! Make it simple for him..! Ask him who he wants 2 be with...and he has 2 answer you no fuss..and the truth! Good luck! : )
2007-02-07 07:33:56 · answer #1 · answered by x-Kelly-x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go back because if someone loved you than they wouldn't have eyes for another woman you would be all that they needed so go with your gut feeling of not trusting him and move on some relationships are just not worth the mental hassle to keep them going. And what happens down the line when he supposedly still loves you but likes another woman would be it be okay then?
2007-02-07 15:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by Spacious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd take my broken heart and put distance between us if that happened to me. You shouldn't be wondering if your boyfriend still wants to be with you. He was honest and straightforward when he told you he likes someone else. Take him at his word and let him go. Don't be the former girlfriend 'waiting in the wings' in the event it doesn't work out with the other girl. You deserve better and your self respect will be intact if you can make yourself walk away. You haven't been single and available in three years. You might actually like it. Find someone else to pay attention to and you'll eventually get over the hurt. Good Luck
2007-02-07 15:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Males are always going to look..its their nature, now I am not saying that their nature is to cheat or cross the line. My man still finds plenty of women attractive and thats fine with me. Hell, I still find plenty of other guys attractive, and I may have a crush on one or two and he knows, just as I know his. Heres the thing, we are honest. I know I am in no threat from the other girls he may be crushing on at the moment, just he knows there is no threat from the guys i am crushing on at the moment. MAybe a lot people wouldn't agree but, we sure don't have jealousy issues.
As long as no lines are crossed everything is fine.
2007-02-07 15:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he likes another chick, im sorry hunny but this probobly isnt going to last. 3 years this guy shouldnt even look at other girls, you've got a lot of thinking to do. Good luck i hope this helps
2007-02-07 15:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ashy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'd say that since he's getting interested in another girl that that means he's not totally into you. I think that with him actually telling you that was a clear cut sign. He was being honest and up front about it. I think you should talk to him about it and see what he really wants. Only he knows the answer.
2007-02-07 15:32:44 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes another chick then he really does not love you because if he loved you he would care about your feelings.
2007-02-07 15:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by K-E-G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, that doesn't even make sense he loves you but likes another girl, he's confused! obviously he's not ready to be in a relationship, I think you should dump him because I think he's just using you! you can get better!
2007-02-07 15:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by ♥AMO♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants his cake and eat it too. If my b/f told me this I would not want to be a second choice for him. If he is looking elsewhere he obviously is not happy with just me and I would be sure he didn't want to be with just me.
2007-02-07 15:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-07 15:32:15 · answer #10 · answered by Summer S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋