Singles & Dating - 4 February 2007

who on here on this thingy is in love or confused about love or needs love or advice let me know...

2007-02-04 15:24:27 · 7 answers · asked by ASHLEE 1

we've kissed & stuff, but how can i make him realize that i really like him, not just for the physical stuff? i've handed out tons of hints - even told him flat out once, but the guy is dense! the only reason i've done anything with other guys is cuz i have no reason to believe he wants a real relationship with me - but he always comments on that kind of stuff to me. like 'oh, i saw you dancing with joe, why don't u just go home with him' what's his deal??? (i'm 24, so no high school answers, please) should i try one final time (with the direct 'i like u') or just give up?

2007-02-04 15:23:34 · 5 answers · asked by how empty of me 2

We both go to school and we talk about our school history. She told me she used to go to private school and had to wear a dress. And she didn't like it. So she now goes to public school. And are conversation ended when the bell rang. She said i'm a loser and she walk away and I told her no your not. And that was it we both walk away and headed toward to another class. Why do you think she called her self a loser for?
She sound pretty serious when she called her self a loser. Maybe she thought I was bored with our conversation. Next day in class I was doing my work and this girl ask for a piece of gum and she was behind me and she ask for a piece too. I gave both of them a piece and the girl i'm interested said i'm sorry for bothering you and I said that's alright and that was it. So do you think she likes me?

2007-02-04 15:19:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this guy. the other day he told me he liked me and when he did i just said well i kinda like you too. then all of my friends were telling me he was going to ask me out the next day but he never did. its been a week since we found out we liked eachother and he still hasnt asked me out. we are ALWAYS together and he keeps holding me like i'm already his girlfriend but i dont think its official until he actually asked me to be his girlfriend. what is up with him taking so long? and does he already think we are "going out" just because we like eachother? i need guy help to help let me kinda get a feeling for what is going on inside his head.

2007-02-04 15:19:17 · 5 answers · asked by oneshaniafan 1

Its first date with this girl, how do i build up the courage to put my arm around her.....we r going to a scary movie...i think shes pretty into me, we kinda kno each other but not like GOOD, so is this even a good idea? and if so how do i build up the courage to do it?

2007-02-04 15:18:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need advice about a girl... can you help me?
We went out once, we are both 20 and are coworkers. We haven't talked in almost two weeks cuz i stopped leaving messages after not getting replies (although her phone had been acting up?). The past 2 days at work have been really awkward around her and I feel like crap/like a jerk, because people have given me the impression she's upset at me. I tried leaving a voicemail but it got bounced back to me, and I'm just too scared to call her. I've thought of what to say, but i can't even say it WITHOUT her on the phone, HELP!!!!!

Additional Details

17 minutes ago
it's the only girl i've ever talked too, and I know i'm a pu**y, so don't bother even saying it. and yes, i know i need to grow a pair.

2007-02-04 15:18:47 · 1 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6

OK, heres the deal. Last year I met this great girl at a Super Bowl party. We started going out that night. But then a week later she broke up with me for another guy. But then she broke up with him and she and I got back together. But then I broke up with her. Time passed and we eventually went out again, and then broke up a week or so later. But we still stayed close friends.


I went to a Super Bowl party this year, and she was there, and we talked and had a good time. I realized that I felt strongly for her. But when I asked her out again, she said she wanted to stay friends (probably because of our previous relationships failing). Now I have the worst feeling in the world and I really want to hold her and be with her.... what should I do? I need some advice....

2007-02-04 15:17:07 · 5 answers · asked by unreal_punk_rocker 2

2007-02-04 15:16:40 · 5 answers · asked by lcag3415 3

Me and my GF of 2 years decided we want to move in together, Now she says she doesnt know if she wants to get married. That is ok with me but I think I would rather get married. I think living together first is a good idea and I agree with it but I do want to eventually get married. what to do?

2007-02-04 15:16:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-04 15:15:30 · 4 answers · asked by wendy r 1

Several days ago, the man I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with, called me up on the morning that we were going to look at a house to live in, and dumped me. He had been begging me for months and I finally said yes and then he called and told me that he has issues to sort out and he thought that what he wanted was a loving and supportive partner but that a relationship isn't what he wants. He was divorced 18 months ago and it was really messy and there was a child involved and I am the first person he has dated since the split and he was the one that said all the romantic things and begged me to move in with him, then BAM- He sees his councellor again and suddenly he has all these issues to deal with and doesn't want to be with me. WHY?????

2007-02-04 15:15:07 · 2 answers · asked by Claudz78 1

becuase i always say like if a girl is talking to me and is jokeing around i just say shes being nice. how do i know when she really does like me or she is just being nice?? IM me if you need to

2007-02-04 15:14:45 · 4 answers · asked by dc_snow_rules 3

I can't call him over the phone, he only has one and it's in the middle of his house so his parents would overhear, and I don't want to embarras him. I won't see him for another week or so, and he seems to be feeling really down lately. I want to tell him I love him... But those are kinda not a good idea to say over IM. Any suggestions?

2007-02-04 15:12:35 · 22 answers · asked by Joanne D 1

Also, which site did you use. Im thinking of trying it...so Im just lookng for some advice and opinions!

2007-02-04 15:12:22 · 5 answers · asked by Bo B 2

It was the first time i actually went to hang out with him, and ended up giving a hand job/oral and messing around in bed. no sex, but still.. we aren't going out. but i dont usually do that at all, i've just been real stir crazy lately. but i dont want him to think thats all i will ever be is a hook up. how can i change that image he may have of me? i dont exactly want him to ask me out or anything, i just want his respect and interest in me. i dont want to be considered a 'hoe' to him. he is in my class at school so i see him everyday and we talk. i dont want him to treat me like im nothing. and the other thing is the next time we hang out i dont know if i want to go that far again. i will probably say no. but if i do say no, will he just drop me/lose interest and think im a joke?

please help out asap! sorry this is so long, i have a hard time explaining myself etc.

2007-02-04 15:12:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this guy I've been infatuated with for a really really long time. And I know he wanted to hang out but nothing ever happened. One minute he was telling me how hot I was and if I wanted to makeout. He even asked if he could call me that coming weekend. It was super sweet and very cute. But he never did. I don't know if he lost interest or what. He never called me. And he only invites me to things that he knows I can't go to. What would possible make a guy interested in me again? I'm one of those girls that just wears whatever. I only wear makeup when my mom bugs me about it. Should I really make a change in my appearance? I think I should just to take better care of myself, but I don't want to be something I'm not. Any advice?

2007-02-04 15:11:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

this boy is giving me all the signs that he likes me...so i told him i had a crush on him and all he said was that he kinda thought i did

what does that mean?

2007-02-04 15:10:38 · 20 answers · asked by WishfulLibra 5

my bestfriend abby* has liked this guy named Dan* for a while. Dan and Abby hsve done "stuff" with eachother, but Dan dosnt like Abby any more. And I kinda like Dan but I dont whant Abby to get mad at me. So yesterday I was at Dans house and him and I were doing "stuff", then we went over to Abbys house. I told Dan that I didnt whant to do any thing with him in front of Abby, and he said okay. Well like everyone there got drunk. Dan kept saying to me lets kiss in front of Abby and I said "no" he said "your ashamed of me" i said "no im not, i just dont whant to loose my friendship with Abby" Well Abby and Dan were like kissing and **** rihgt in front of me. so i was like kissing this guy Blake and Dan got really mad and we were talking and I was like how do you think i feel when your like kissing Abby right in front of me i feel like ****. well him and abby like went to bed with each other. and this morning i heard them having sex. Dan wont talk to me now. What should I do?

2007-02-04 15:10:33 · 1 answers · asked by hardXXXcore niahhgg 1

i've started liking one of my friends, but were not really good friends, and she hasn't noticed yet. i'm trying to figure out what to do, i'm not going to date because that's the fastest way to loose a friend. i don't have a crush on her but i do really like her. the big prob is that we go to diffrent schools, and only get to see each other at church. i'm thinking of stuff we can do together. btw we live in a tiny town and the only thing we have here is a walmart, a few pizza places, and a movie theater

2007-02-04 15:09:10 · 15 answers · asked by BANG! 1

OK, so theres this girl that I like and I am pretty sure she likes me too now, her friend asked me to go to prom (girls ask the guys for this one) with her and I said yes, but then the girl I liked asked me, and I had to say no because i was going with the other girl and she asks another guy. prom has come and gone and I really want to ask her out, but the guy she took to prom wants to ask her out and I don't want to be mean but I talked to her and she doesnt like the guy, but he is under the imporession that she does. He was gonna ask her out on valentines day (my idea) and I don't want him to feel bad that she will say no, and also I do not want to ask her right after he asks her because I think that would be mean to him... what should I do and how long should I wait afewr the guy asks her

I just found out that she does like me but that makes it even more complicated

2007-02-04 15:08:38 · 8 answers · asked by me! 2

I'm living with my sister for now but I can't stay for long. I have a job but the pay is not alot. She has 2 kids that I love very much. I just can't find a better way. Rent in N.Y is too much. I try to help her but she dont want any help. where can i live?

2007-02-04 15:08:04 · 1 answers · asked by larry m 1

how old were you when you first fell in love with someone else

2007-02-04 15:07:39 · 50 answers · asked by JudyRamone 2

I got the eyes,the smile, the looks, i play football for my school, im tough, i can make a girl laugh like no other, but as far as i ever really go is just flirting with a girl and every once in a while i get a hug, i dont get it?

2007-02-04 15:06:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

and wait i mean i will would cause i love him but would anyone else do that is that a good thing for him to say?

2007-02-04 15:06:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

how is it feel to be in love?

I never experience it before so i don't know how i feel right now is love......

2007-02-04 15:05:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a freshman in college and I think I'm in love with my RA. She is the most amazing person I've ever met. Here is the situation. She is a senior and has lots of friends. I don't because I'm from out of state and I'm in my first year. She invites me to do things with her and her friends and she has done some little things like move all the way to the other side of the table to sit near me. We have only been alone together once and I met her mom upon her request. Her friends sometimes joke about things getting serious between us and she just smiles when they say this. She shows a lot of interest in what I like and I've caught her staring at me a few times. I want to make a move, but I feel as though since she is the senior and I'm the freshman and since she is the RA and I'm the resident, she should have to make the move. I know she has to be nice as an RA, but she doesn't do things with the other guys on my floor. I know she doesn't have a boyfriend. What do I do from here?

2007-02-04 15:05:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

the posters are not revealing in any way, i just know that if my boyfriend had posters of hot girls on his walls, i wouldn't like it. should i take them down even though i know i luv my boy friend and not the hott guys on my walls?

2007-02-04 15:04:38 · 1 answers · asked by travelsized29 2

2007-02-04 15:04:24 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2

2007-02-04 15:03:15 · 2 answers · asked by anh do 1

my girl friend and i have been dating for 3 years. she recently hung out with a old friend from high school, who happends to be a guy. she told me that they made out back in high school for fun. she when to the movies with him the other night. she told me after they got out of the movies the talked for a while, about an hour. they have been talking a lot lately and texting each other. today durring the super bpwl she went into her room and talked to him for 40 mins. i went to post something on her myspace page and one of her best friends asked her "how last night went, and for all the details." is there anything to be worried about? what should i do?

2007-02-04 15:03:11 · 10 answers · asked by mark j 1