Several days ago, the man I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with, called me up on the morning that we were going to look at a house to live in, and dumped me. He had been begging me for months and I finally said yes and then he called and told me that he has issues to sort out and he thought that what he wanted was a loving and supportive partner but that a relationship isn't what he wants. He was divorced 18 months ago and it was really messy and there was a child involved and I am the first person he has dated since the split and he was the one that said all the romantic things and begged me to move in with him, then BAM- He sees his councellor again and suddenly he has all these issues to deal with and doesn't want to be with me. WHY?????
2007-02-04 15:15:07 · 2 answers · asked by Claudz78 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because he freaked out, he got divorced not too long ago and now u guys are lookin at a house together...i know he talked bout all those things and said he wanted u guys to live together and he prob did mean it but when the time came he freaked out, just give him space and dont have contact with him. If he truly loves u he will make contact with u and realise what he's done, if not then he aint the one. I understand how u feel, same happened with my ex, he wasnt divorced or anythin but he made all these plans with me and then out of nowhere he dumped me.
2007-02-04 15:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could involve child custody or visitation. Or he's a basket case who wants more but got very cold feet.
2007-02-04 15:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by lawman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋