OK, heres the deal. Last year I met this great girl at a Super Bowl party. We started going out that night. But then a week later she broke up with me for another guy. But then she broke up with him and she and I got back together. But then I broke up with her. Time passed and we eventually went out again, and then broke up a week or so later. But we still stayed close friends.
I went to a Super Bowl party this year, and she was there, and we talked and had a good time. I realized that I felt strongly for her. But when I asked her out again, she said she wanted to stay friends (probably because of our previous relationships failing). Now I have the worst feeling in the world and I really want to hold her and be with her.... what should I do? I need some advice....
2007-02-04 15:17:07 · 5 answers · asked by unreal_punk_rocker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As hard as it is sometimes to let someone go..maybe it is the best thing to do. I know that you said that you have strong feelings for her but could it be that you feel this way because she rejected you. Most people want something that they know they can not have. I agree also with the comment about your past experience with her has not been very successful. Maybe you do need to move on and close this part of your life and find someone new...as hard as it may be...it is probley for the best.
2007-02-04 16:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it is, sometimes you just have to let go. It's unfortunate that you found out you had strong feelings for her after she was gone, but you cannot make her feel the same way no matter how hard you try. I'm not sure getting back together would have been the best option for you both at this stage. It's better perhaps to find out first what made your relationship fail to begin with, so that you don't keep making the same mistakes. Learn what the real issues were. You cannot do this for her only for yourself and when the next relationship comes along use these lessons you have learned about yourself to make it the best you can.
2007-02-04 23:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by canadian_chick0678 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, this is a simple answer to a complicated question. Don't do it. If your question is accurate, you two have proven time and time again that it will not work, so why repeat history again? Think with the right (top-most) head, man. Female friend plus sex equals awkwardness forever. You know you've gotten it, you know you could probably get it, and hey, what the hell, it's the Super Bowl, so lets try to get with that girl again. That's what the little man in your pants is saying. Don't listen to him, if you do, it will suck.
2007-02-04 23:25:10 · answer #3 · answered by yodaddy9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your relationships with her only lasted a week at a time, obviously some component to the relationship was missing. find someone else to hold.
2007-02-04 23:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by shoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-02-04 23:19:20 · answer #5 · answered by Ruby S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋