My first question on Yahoo Answers was about my friendship with a sailor, that progressed into love. We've never been in a relationship, but he does indeed love me to this day. He has a young child and has decided to reconcile with his child's mother. As a friend, I encourage him to do so, but also told him to be mindful. Just because it seems right to make a family doesn't mean it IS right for him. So, I am still going to stand by as a friend. He says he is actually confused about what to do with his feelings for me. My personal opinion, based on history and just having lived life is that this thing with his child's mother won't last long. He hated her before he was deployed. I know how being away from home can make a person homesick and things seem so much better than they really are. So, while I don't hope for the demise of his relationship, I don't want to completely bow out and lose my friend--especially IF IF IF things don't last between the two of them.
2007-01-26
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