I am attractive people tell me that I am ( when I do not ask), I am nice ( no one thinks I am mean).
2007-01-26 09:43:54 · 8 answers · asked by naiveandyoung 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not at all. You're just wisely choosy. It usually does more harm than good to screw around before you're 19 or 20 anyways.
Do you WANT a relationship? If you do, start trying to forge those friendships. If you don't, you're not doing anything wrong, and you aren't weird.
Just be yourself.
2007-01-26 09:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by bgii_2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot more we need to know. When someone comes into your life that you find attractive, what do you do? Nothing? Act indifferent toward them? Hostile? When someone asks you out, do you say no?
Have you just never met anyone you really liked, or are you not pursuing possible relationships? Do you make excuses when interested folks show interest?
How do you feel sexually toward men? Women? Maybe you are pursuing the wrong sex and feel bad about it. Maybe you are chasing a specific type of person who isnt' attracted to you. Maybe you like people SPECIFICALLY because they aren't attracted to you...this is actually very common...it's a good way to avoid commitment.
So get some answers to these questions and talk it over with soemone you trust. You're young yet....it's not that strange.
2007-01-26 17:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by french7suzi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, nothing is wrong with you* You've put your priorities in order in your life..you have gone to school, etc..and a "relationship" is just something you weren't interested in persuing. Do you get out at all to meet people?? That would be a start~ Are you working? You can meet alot of people through different jobs. Do you even want to date? Or are you just thinking about it now?? but NO nothing is "wrong" with you~ You may have been brought up with one parent only and for whatever reasons...have never been interested in "dating"......or are scared of being hurt as you hear alot of different things on relationships through friends and their familys and friends etc* that has put you off of dating.
Go on out there and meet people* Enjoy life*~ Do what your heart tells you to do*~~
2007-01-26 17:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there's nothing wrong with you why do you want to have a serious relationship if your still young just go out have fun and when someone comes along and your both ready then go for it don't just rush in because you want something for more than 2 months
2007-01-26 17:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by Sexy Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, some people are late bloomers, in this world 20 seems like an old age to start, but its not really. Maybe you should try and start a relationship rather than waiting for someone to come to you. (which is what i am guessing you have done.)
2007-01-26 17:49:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you. it seems that a lot of people out there think that everybody needs to be with somebody. there is nothing wrong with being solo. if you have never been in a real relationship, maybe you should consider focusing one growing as a person so that eventually you will become someone that can be in a serious relationship.
2007-01-26 17:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by freebirdnmay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean by that? i feel for you, ive never had a boyfriend before, or a first kiss...i don't want to have to wait that long tho...geez...you've probably not let enough ppl kno ur available, and you've got terrible luck.
2007-01-26 17:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by aerie anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it that hump on your back?
2007-01-26 17:57:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋