We have been dating for almost 2 months, and we were talking on the phone last night and he mentioned that I wasn't as sweet as his girlfriends in the past. This is my first real relationship and even though it seems to me like im being sweet and caring, he isnt seeing that from me. What are some ways i can show that i really do care and be sweet to him?
2007-01-26 09:37:22 · 11 answers · asked by So lost in this thing called luv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What he means by "sweet" is that you aren't giving him enough head. Seriously, the guy just wants a bj.
2007-01-26 09:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey.......If he is comparing you to ex-girlfriends...you have bigger problems then he doesn't think your sweet.....Either a guy likes you for you or he isn't the one for you....I know this sounds really harsh but I have had many many boyfriends and the truth is this really sounds like a controling guy to me......I am very sweet....little things like just calling or texting something cute....smiling at him across the room is sweet...but you need to come up with your own version of sweet and if it is not "sweet" enough for him...find someone who likes how sweet you are...not their ex...and one more thing if the ex was so sweet why are they not together now?????
2007-01-26 09:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by flameinpueblo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are too good for a guy like him. What kinda guy says that to his girl...especially comparing him with his ex! Tell him you don't think your gettingthe respect you tried hard to get and that you wanna be someone that does give you the respect you deserve. And tell him that maybe he can go back to his sweet ex! And go out and find a better man. Cuz obviously if he says a thing like that he is not the one.
2007-01-26 09:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by ☺Lisa☺ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ICK! He compared you to his exes? GROSS! You go tell him that you are who you are and you thought he liked you for you since he encouraged you to be his girlfriend and when you want to be sweet you will and if he doesn't like how he's being treated then, GOOD BYE! Gosh! He's not a God, honey! Just a boy!
2007-01-26 09:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send him a package of sugar in the mail.
2007-01-26 09:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by Garret Tripp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't waste my time on this guy and why should you change for him anyway? And furthermore, he shouldn't say stuff like that to you, you know, comparing you to his ex's - that's just not cool.
2007-01-26 09:46:37 · answer #6 · answered by mauinei34 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can make him something from the heart.....how about writing him a poem from the heart or making a scrapbook with your pictures and dates u guys had.....or a cd with love songs.....i did all dat for ma bf.
2007-01-26 09:41:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should dump him for the comment.
2007-01-26 09:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone who is going to respect you for who you are
2007-01-26 09:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is full of balogna...
He is playing you...
2007-01-26 09:44:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋