2007-01-26 09:32:09 · 31 answers · asked by david o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust me dude it's not worth it. I know you feel like you really need to know, but you're just asking to get hurt. Move on, and don't be one of those creepy ex-boyfriends that can't accept things. Girls have a way of talking, and if you can't just let it go, she's going to tell allllll her friends. Limits your future dating options.
2007-01-26 09:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by Joe J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have an STD and are not sure where it came from, why try to find out? What good would come out of knowing for certain? What does your gut tell you? I'll admit, my gut was telling me my ex was cheating. He never did admit it, even when the facts pointed that way. When we parted, my thoughts cleared and the questions I couldn't find answers to when we were together were answered in their own ways. I assume that he did cheat (as I said, facts pointed that way-- I somehow got a "mysterious" STD during our relationship and I was faithful throughout) and I didn't have to search for answers anymore. Instead I could focus on more important things, like the lessons I learned as a result of his presence in my life, respecting myself so I could make better decisions in the future, etc.
2007-01-26 17:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, he or she is your ex now. So why do you care? And there is no way for you to find out. Unless you try asking. And very rarely will anyone ever admit that they cheated anyway.
2007-01-26 17:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by green_baby_dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they cheated...They cheated...And they have to live with that fact...What goes around comes around...And what sucks is that you wont be around to see them get hurt by getting cheated on...But I mean if you find out this answer...Alls its going to do is hurt you, not help you....And if your trying to get over them this will not help you...And besides it will give you a terrible image if you try to find this out and it starts getting back to people...
2007-01-26 20:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by grumpybear0718 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont bother...sometimes the answer just isnt worth the curiosity. He is your ex and he is in the past, if you suspect him for cheating, then why bother snooping around to confirm. You know your feelings.
2007-01-26 17:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i totally understand your question.i always had doubts about my ex.the not knowing is torture.i know its easier said than done,but just try to move on.you'll probably never know.when you do find out the truth you'll either be truley gutted if she has and think 'i knew it',and if she hasnt you'll feel guilty for thinking it.
note this as a bad experience and move on.you'll find happiness soon enough.
2007-01-26 19:10:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are now your ex, why do you need to know. I think it would be better if you just move on from that period in your life. If you found out they had what would you do?? That faze of your life is over. Dont dwell on it!!!
2007-01-26 17:38:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, if it is your ex, why even try and find out. What would it solve? It would probably just hurt you.
2007-01-26 17:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're better off not knowing. Believe me.
ps: love the way Ashley presumed this question was asked by a woman ha ha ha ha ha
Although you could be gay of course x
2007-01-26 17:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by Away With The Fairies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter now? You are talking about your 'ex'. What will it achieve if you find out?
2007-01-26 18:10:40 · answer #10 · answered by Kingbee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋