well is it okay to tell a guy you have a crush on,that you have a crush on him?and is it okay to e-mail i have a crush on you?cuz i don't want to be emberssed if he laughs at me or something.please help.
2007-01-26 09:31:32 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Mandy♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if i e-mail or just talk to him what should i say?please help!!! :) thanks for your answers.:)
2007-01-29 01:39:06 · update #1
I think it would be more effective (though more difficult) if you tell him in person. Don't worry about what he does. Guys do like confident girls, oftentimes because they lack confidence themselves. If he mocks you or laughs, he's not worth your time.
2007-01-26 09:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by Fergi the Great 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. If he laughs, who cares! Don't worry about something like that. Lifes all about taking chances, but always think before you put an exciting thought into action. Some people may not understand. All people face embarrassment. It's a part of life.
2007-01-26 09:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you could put in terms better than that. Don't say you have a crush on him. Tell him that you have been noticing him and would like to have a good talk with him or something like that. Telling him that you have a crush on him might be cute but it would be a childish way to put it.
2007-01-26 09:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could backfire, because guys can be mean, especially if he doesn't find you attractive. Flirt with him, if he doesn't take the bait, move on. If he does, don't let him know you have the "crush" until things get more advanced. Hey, I'm a guy and I know girls can be mean too. I wrote a girl a love letter when I was 17 and she passed it around her crew, (mostly preps). I can vouch that dudes are ten times worse.
2007-01-26 09:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by boozer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, you just dont go straight and tell a guy " Hey! I have a crush on you " but you can do things in a more subtle way . You can for instance raise a nice conversation with him and let him know that he is a cool guy and the like. He is bound o have more respect fpr u this way.
2007-01-26 09:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by rowell1608 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy would love to open his inbox and see that he's received emails saying "i think your hot", it is a way of doing it but he might think that your scared. Suggest that you think hes hot first like "you look really good in that top!" that way youll be flirting with him in person before you email saying you fancie him.
2007-01-26 09:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by emo_ghandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm all for email but I think in this instance, it would be a little impersonal. I say ask him out on a date and if he says no, it's his loss and if he says yes, you're all good!
2007-01-26 09:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by mauinei34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure go for it! Then you'll have a lova and a best friend!
BaBa Booey.
2007-01-27 07:25:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all right tohave a chush on a guy that,s normal.also e-mailing is cool as well.if he laughs at you he,s a jerk.
2007-01-26 09:37:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure go nuts. as i guy i would be flattered if a girl let me know she was into me instead of having to figure it out myself
2007-01-26 09:36:39 · answer #10 · answered by therernonameleft 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋