Singles & Dating - 23 January 2007

I was unsure of my feelings for this guy, and we didn't talk very much. It seemed like he did sort of have feelings towards me so I decided to ask him to Sadies. I asked him on Monday and the answer he gave me was that "I have to check what i'm doing this weekend and i'll let you know". Well he didn't tell me today and the dance is on Friday, I know, shame on me for asking on such short notice but whatever. I interpret his answer as a no, especially since he didn't tell me anything today, even though he clearly had many chances to. What do you think?

2007-01-23 16:55:03 · 4 answers · asked by Cece 2

My boyfriend goes to university in the town where i live, but goes home for the summer(4 months). Last summer he drove a female friend home from work every night..and called her almost every day.. I should also mention he didn't even call me every day..and was often angry and mean to me (calling me names and getting mad over nothing) and he didnt come to visit me as he did previous summers.. I've found out that he still calls her..and it makes me uncomfortable. He swears that they are just friends, and gets angry with me if I try to talk about it.Am I just being jealous and insecure?

2007-01-23 16:53:19 · 15 answers · asked by joan r 1

I have never had a boyfriend before, but I had older men like me around the 18 years of age. How do I get one near my age of 14? I don't try to get a boyfriend because my friends have one, it's because I want to know what it feels like to be loved that's not in my family and is a boy. I'm really troubled. Please Help!!!

2007-01-23 16:52:04 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3

we have known each other for some time, He is single and 32 and I am 21。I am one of his most impressing student. He knows i have crush on him, until last week I sent him an email to ask him out（ since he is not my prof now）, and he replied saying that "You are a lovely young woman, and I enjoy talking with you when you visit my
office. But for several reasons, I need for our relationship to remain
professional. " He doesn't teach me this term, but i still take course under his collegues, and if we involved ppl will prob think we r hooked up since i was his student.. and obvious it is bad for his reputation if he involves... but i just wonder does he feel like me in romantic way, and r there any chances if i wait

2007-01-23 16:51:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while, i cant see she wants to take it to the next level--she is constanly looking at condoms--how do i say that im okay with it but have a few problems with it without seeming to commanding and overpowering

2007-01-23 16:46:46 · 11 answers · asked by J-man1037 2

usually in school i don't want to speak or discuss with friends on issues that seems doesn't concern me.With my boy friend when he asks me whether i love him or not i prefer not to speak even a word rather i keep quit and look at some thing else.Due to this my boy friend get upset and some times we departed with this mood.What can i do to solve this problem,How can i improve to speak on such issues especially with my boyfriend.U know i love him but my mouth doesn't open to confess my love to him.Plz i am looking forward to your practicable Advice or your expriance on this problem.
Thank u

2007-01-23 16:45:48 · 17 answers · asked by betelehem T 1

i tried to break up with this person but I literally made me sick inside not being with him

2007-01-23 16:42:20 · 24 answers · asked by ashleyglanton2004 1

If i ask my friend out and she says shes got a reception to go to for school that friday with her friend whose a girl should i ask her out again or is that a "no" answer? NOTE: we are good friends and work together she didnt seem to be surprised or like "ewww he asked me out" on her face so...??????

2007-01-23 16:41:03 · 15 answers · asked by genpattonwwii 2

2007-01-23 16:39:54 · 17 answers · asked by sosweet 1

What would you do if you walked in on your brother and your girlfriend 'making the Hell out'? Not that It has ever happened to me,but What if it happened to ya?

2007-01-23 16:38:41 · 23 answers · asked by The Isht! 2

Is it true that it hurts 4 the girl the first time she has sex? If so, how bad? Me and my gf are deeply in love w/ each other and wouldn't leave each other if our lives depended on it. We're both virgins and i'm ready to go further but I don't wanna hurt her.

2007-01-23 16:37:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this one girl that we used 2 be friends but now she never talks 2 me and no matter how hard i try she still wont say a thing
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-23 16:34:46 · 27 answers · asked by babydrg@sbcglobal.net 1

my boyfriend lost control because we had a stupid argument about trust....and he started speeding in a drizzling night...it was very dangerous..he was yelling and saying things i didnt even know could be said...i was so scared. it go to the point of him breaking his car's windshield with his fist because he couldn't wipe the foggy windows...after that he started crying and sayinga lot os things...he just lost it! after a few moments he snapped back into reality and we satrted talking ...i had never ever been so scared in my whole life. What happened to him??? we've togetehr for 4 yrs. now...what can i do to help him besides leaving him...? help.

2007-01-23 16:34:07 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am rely confuse I don't now what i realy feel for my girlfriend.

2007-01-23 16:31:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a problem i want to quit my g.frnd i care abt her but she is saying she also wants to quit me but i m affraid that she will b in involving in a bad things like (prostituetes) as according to her statements. i dont want her in this shape so plz help me wat to do and how to quit her which way is the easy to do ???

2007-01-23 16:30:55 · 9 answers · asked by it's me 1

i wrote early..but im really now feel like a total geek..but if i talk to a guy just one time and then he says that he will call and he hasn't and i texted him yesterday and today..am i pushing my luck or its cool what im doing?

2007-01-23 16:30:54 · 14 answers · asked by shy_bell80 6

theres someone at school i really like but i also want to know if they like me back because that person looks at me once in a while.

2007-01-23 16:28:35 · 8 answers · asked by m1k3 1

Can a bad relationship that included emotional abuse turn a person asexual..? I just got out of a bad relationship six months ago and I'm still having problems being attracted to people. It seems I'm only physically attracted to one type of person...and its really really hard trying to find that type of person... I can't change who I'm attracted to.. I've tried to be less "picky" but it doesn't work. I'm worried Mr. Right will never come along.

A few of my friend's friends have asked me out, but I don't find them attractive at all. One person seems to have a somewhat decent personality and all, but he kinda reminds me of my cousin.. and I'm not attracted to him, I seem to be attracted more to people who look like the complete opposite of me.. and I can't really find anyone like that...

Am I doomed?

2007-01-23 16:27:21 · 15 answers · asked by Rae-Rae Nikkoles <3 3

2007-01-23 16:26:12 · 19 answers · asked by Lindsay H 1

I have been datin my bf for a little over a yr and we have lived together for about 7 months. I just found out that he cheated on me the first 5 or 6 months of our relationship, even when we started living together. What should I do! He hasnt talked to this girl in about 6 months, but I dont know what to do. PLEASE help me

2007-01-23 16:26:08 · 14 answers · asked by daddyzgrl4u05 2

Hello everybody, i`ve a bf and i think that i`m very very jealous, i`m not possesive but i love him very much. Well i have no problem with him having friends, i mean girls but as soon as a girl writes or tells something to catch his attention, i feel very very... bad.Actually he doesnot know that i`m jealous to this extent, At times, he teases me by telling me he saw a beautiful girl and i don`t really show him that i`m jealous but on the inside it`s as though i`m like a pressure cooker on the stove. What can i do?I don`t want to show him that i`m jealous like that, i don`t know....will he be annoyed if he knows about it? Or perhaps will he be glad because i`ve heard that people are happy when the person they love are jealous..... Please i would like to have answers, genuine ones mostly from boys to know their response, feelings etc concerning jealousy if their gf was jealous would they love it or..... Girls would also be welcome for their answers,
Please thank u very much

2007-01-23 16:24:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-23 16:24:23 · 19 answers · asked by Hanna J 1

Women often complain about guys making them wear lingerie to 'enhance the experience'; are there any women who like the idea of the tables being turned and making the guy dress sexily for them?

2007-01-23 16:24:08 · 17 answers · asked by boycalledsusie 1

I am friends with a guy at work. He has a good heart and sometimes females take advantage of him. They ask him to buy them something like lunch or a drink. They are just cheap and figure he'll just do it! I fuss at him about wasting time with triffeling people. I think he gets the messege because I haven't seen this happen in a while now.
Last night, he was talking to me. I mentioned that I didn't like Renita. I don't like ppl who just call their rudeness teasing. So I don't like her. I said I didn't join the conversation because of that reason. Later, he asked...well can I talk to Lindsey? I happen to like Lindsey because she is always prepared for work and has her own money for lunch. She is a hard worker and I admire her. I told my guy friend "Yes, you can talk to Lindsey!"
Oddly, his question makes me sound possessive. I realize we all have other friends. I just want him to have quality friends. Not beggy little spoiled brat friends! (Girl 1 and 2)

IS MY BEHAVIOR POSSESSIVE?

2007-01-23 16:23:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-23 16:21:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it possible the married/engaged couples on Eharmoney are getting married are taking big steps because, the matching process on the site is so slow that the minute they see someone they get along with they just jump on the opportunity and marry them?

Could it also be that these people are soo into the thought of marriage that they are just quicker to jump the gun the minute the system spits out someone who they get along with and cant help but to think to marry them?


Do u know of anyone who met on Eharmony who have been married for 5 years and more?

2007-01-23 16:21:33 · 9 answers · asked by Gina L 1

It's me, I love a girl and I know she has some special feeling with me too. But every time I "attack" (dated her, went out somewhere, hold her hand, said to her how I love her and want her to be my gf...), she refused, but I could feel there's still chance from her.

Recent days, she didn't answer my calls and sms anymore. Today is her birthday, after some rings finally she answered me that she just want to be my friend now. I said yes! I don't want anything goes worse more.

I will never give up her, but I don't know what to do now. Did anyone have situation like me? Or if you were me, what will you do? I need your help :( Thank you.

2007-01-23 16:20:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-23 16:18:56 · 8 answers · asked by gordon_r83 1

I m infact searching to find a group consisting of wives of Indian origin(NRI) and their white male hubbies counterparts. Would like to know more about them, their inputs whether they had any social consequences to face?

2007-01-23 16:18:17 · 3 answers · asked by Monee 1

I have this issue regarding the men in my life One guy is single. and the other guy is married, I myself am unhappily married. These two other guys have been very close friends of mine for years they are both hitting on me saying that hey want to be with me despite the fact I am married. The problems is I don't understand why they are doing this to me now, when for years they were fine with just being my best friends. I have never lead either of them on to think that I was going to be more than friends and now they are both mad at me for not responding they way they had wanted to. What's the deal, is it natural for guys that are good friends to eventually want more? I have yet to cheat, but I must admit that one in particular has had me thinking for the past year that he would treat me way better than my husband. I can't bare that these friends might no longer be my friends if I don't have an affair. It won't make me have one, but why do they have to become distant know? I miss them

2007-01-23 16:16:11 · 6 answers · asked by Destiny 5