Singles & Dating - 21 January 2007

i was talking to this guy tonight who i recently reconnected with.we,ve been back in touch for 1 month now and hes been calling me about 2 times a week.tonight when he called i found myself angry at him because i dont feel hes putting enough effort into calling me like he should.even though we are only aquaintances it still upsets me for some reason and im confused as to why because i dont see him as someone i would be with romantically,so why is this bothering me so much?

2007-01-21 14:48:04 · 1 answers · asked by aleah2515 1

Well there's this guy i like and he's really smart. he is the captain of mostly every sport for guys. Also, he is my cousins best friend. How can I get him to like me? We're already close but I want it to be more than that

2007-01-21 14:47:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-21 14:47:52 · 6 answers · asked by Brian W 1

2007-01-21 14:47:15 · 11 answers · asked by Tiko 3

I have been dating this girl for 9 months living with her for 6. Out of the blue about 3 months ago things changed. A girl who was once madly in love with me, praising me for making her happy has done a complete 360. She now spends all of her time online playing games and talking with people. I would normally not care but she flirts so much. Not to mention I caught her ex sending her messages like "hey cutey", and things like that. When I try to spend time with her she gets very defensive and says im trying to control her. She also started constantly flirting with different people. I think she was like this before, as she said her last ex was extremely jealous.

She is 3 years younger then me, and I am trying to figure out how to salvage this relationship. I don't know what the hell I did wrong or where I went wrong but I feel awful. She makes me feel like im just a pawn in her little game. I love her to death, but this reverse in her emotions is destroying our relationship.

2007-01-21 14:46:48 · 8 answers · asked by pokerfan77 1

ok, im a 20 year old female college student. i dont plan on getting married, i believe getting married will get me stuck in a rut.. all i wanna do is get my education, get a career, and work for my own money and not have to depend on a guy..is anything wrong with this?

2007-01-21 14:46:27 · 12 answers · asked by bandi 2

something like
WE should get that
or WE should do that

we're not goin out
we've just started talkin more now (like friends)

im pretty sure she likes me
i like her

what does it mean when she says 'we' ?

2007-01-21 14:44:18 · 30 answers · asked by Nick723 3

im having problems with telling my ex that i still love him. i broke up with him cuz of jealousy. and i kinda want him back i had a chance to be with him but i opened my mouth and said the wrong thing and so i screwed it up and i didnt make myself a beter women cuz i was too chicken to tell him how i felt, but his sister says im too little too late should i still tell him how i feel and just see what happens or no?

2007-01-21 14:42:58 · 13 answers · asked by Pookie! 4

i have a gf and i love kissing her and stuff but how do i start a make out? i want too but i dont wanna come on 2 strong!

2007-01-21 14:42:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

he and i have been together since around june. get along great. he says he doesnt want anyone else. he recently started professional school and now thinks that i interfere. i am also in professional school in a town an hour away, but we still can see each other regularly. i try to be very supportive, and at this time, since school is still new for him, i keep my expectations minimal. he tells me that he doesnt think we can hang anymore because he isnt ready; he has a lot he wants to do, he wants to be the best student, be more settled in his new town etc. i just want to know if this is a legit feeling or whether he is trying to get out without hurting my feelings. he swears im "perfect" and it isnt about me... but i cant help but think it is. we had this same fight when he first started school and within 2 weeks he literally showed up at my door begging me to try again, as long as we "kept it slow" which we have. im broken because i love this guy...should i give up?

2007-01-21 14:42:29 · 3 answers · asked by e26.2 2

2007-01-21 14:42:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok theres this girl i know and i like her and she likes me too. we have known each other for about three years, but we have always jus been friends.her birthday is comin up and i dont know what to get her. she says that she likes tweety bird and the roses... i am plannin on askin her on her birthday to go out with me.. ne help on suggestions?

2007-01-21 14:41:57 · 13 answers · asked by Leo 2

2007-01-21 14:41:24 · 6 answers · asked by eleshiak 2

2007-01-21 14:40:23 · 12 answers · asked by hot boy 1

So a few days ago my boyfriend and I 'attempted' to make out... and i have no idea how to do it well. I know most of you are going to tell me "theres no right or wrong way to kiss just go with it" but i dont want to hear that. I need actual tips on how to kiss better. do you close your lips periodically when you french? what do you do with your tongue?

2007-01-21 14:39:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well i have never met this person, but talk all the time by email and phone. We have so much in common and from waht we can tell are perfect for eachother. On the other hand how do you honestly know what the other one is doing all the time if ure not there. I guess its complicated but we want it to work. He is planning a trip to come see me in a couple weeks....Thing is we both have school..What do i do?

2007-01-21 14:37:25 · 6 answers · asked by Mel 1

Sigh...I'm torn apart over this girl.Okay, here's the deal:I really really care for this girl but I don't know what she feels about me.She is a very unstable girl and if anything bad happens around her, she is convinced that its her fault.I talk to her on the phone a fair amount, and I see her at school and we talk through email but she worries me all the time.When we talk on the phone, she will tell me secrets that she claims that her best friend and I only know about. But, she may turn right around and start talking about one of my friends that she likes, or some guy that works in her favorite store that she likes, or tell me about a time she made out with one of my "enemies".I always try to comfort her in some way or another.She always believes that things are her fault.Also,She hugs all other friends but not me.I love her to death and I worry constantly about her well being.I've have sorta told Her I like her in an email but I'm one of 3 guys.I'm least attractive of the 3.plzhelp

2007-01-21 14:37:01 · 4 answers · asked by Searching4Answers 1

should you lie about it? tell the truth?

2007-01-21 14:36:19 · 5 answers · asked by kevin g 2

self explanitory. i just want peoples opinion on the topic

2007-01-21 14:36:09 · 19 answers · asked by Crazy Rich Mofo 1

ok so i really like this guy and we flirt like all the time and he does stuff for me that he won't do for his friends and he looks at me with that look like he is looking into my soul. But i dont know if he likes me and i don't want to ruin our friendship by telling him that i like him. Got any suggestions?

2007-01-21 14:34:58 · 2 answers · asked by LuVs2DaNcE 2

Let's say you've been together for 1 or 2 years?
Things are not going anywhere...
You're just together under the same roof...

Well, my question is this:
How long would you wait before you leave your boyfriend when things are not going anywhere?
Things could be career, engagement, financial stability...
Anything that you can think of...
Would you still leave your boyfriend even though you still love him?

2007-01-21 14:32:48 · 34 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3

I think everyone is trying to hinder us from falling into love with each other. Because we would make the perfect couple. Why cant people accept the fact that some people are better of than others?

2007-01-21 14:32:37 · 10 answers · asked by Slider 2

Which one comes first?
We love someone first then we trust him/her, or it's because we have trusted him/her that we start to love? And why?

2007-01-21 14:32:13 · 17 answers · asked by newtrulkus 1

I am planning to send some flowers to a wonderful girl (we decided last night to become more than friends)...I want to send her possibly something like this:

http://a1128.g.akamai.net/7/1128/497/0001/www.proflowers.com//prodimg/LLY30astalstro_ruby07_m.jpg

Do you think she will like it??

2007-01-21 14:30:36 · 27 answers · asked by Alpha M 2

Ok so there is this totally hot girl that i really want to get to know. She works where I work but only she works during the week - monday thru friday. I work only on weekends. I hardly get a chance to see her and when I do its kind of awkward and everything...it really sucks because she is such a sweet girl and very pretty. Not sure what to say to her. Everytime i try to talk with her its like we run out of things to say and just kind of go our own ways. I find it very hard to get to know her when i hardly see her. I think she likes me too. I guess my main question is, is it so terrible if a guy is a little shy? I mean are girls willing to work with that sort of thing? In time I'll warm up and everything but its pretty hard because I never see her. Suggestions?

Damn she is fine

2007-01-21 14:28:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-21 14:28:08 · 9 answers · asked by boo-bear-360 1

My friend told me that its quite normal nowdays, for wives to cheat their husband for not satisfiyed SEX!!!
Is it true?? i am shocked hearing this...

2007-01-21 14:27:03 · 8 answers · asked by sUnseT 3

Upset when I say no but it turns me off him sexually. What should I do? Its putting a damper on our sex life.

2007-01-21 14:26:27 · 9 answers · asked by Sexy_Lizzy85 1

i do not pass and just love going out shopping for cute girly things, so if you saw someone like myself out shopping would you say anything to me

2007-01-21 14:26:02 · 5 answers · asked by maryjo 3

I am determined to get this guy. Even though, we never actually talked. But I've sent him notes and stuff. I bet he thinks I am a weirdo or a stalker. I want to send him a note everyday, just to show him that I care about him. But without him thinking I am like super desperate for him. Should I do it?I should I stop and see what happens because I am pretty sure he has a tingly feeling for me,too. What if with the notes I push him farther away?And it's not like I can't even talk to him because everytime I do he like pushes me away. I hate how he is so shy. Any suggestions?

2007-01-21 14:24:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous