I am determined to get this guy. Even though, we never actually talked. But I've sent him notes and stuff. I bet he thinks I am a weirdo or a stalker. I want to send him a note everyday, just to show him that I care about him. But without him thinking I am like super desperate for him. Should I do it?I should I stop and see what happens because I am pretty sure he has a tingly feeling for me,too. What if with the notes I push him farther away?And it's not like I can't even talk to him because everytime I do he like pushes me away. I hate how he is so shy. Any suggestions?
2007-01-21 14:24:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Turn yourself in to the police.
Think you're a stalker???
You are a stalker.
2007-01-21 14:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that idea is cute. but. notes and stuff isnt gonna go very far. u need to try to talk to him.try talking to him when hes alone. or online. ask him a simple question like "do you know what time it is?" or a simple "hi" i really dont think hes gonna push u away if u start with little things do not constantly bother him. yes i understand you want to show him that u care but he will think ur crazy,annoying,weird,ect. dont overdo things dont talk to him everyday and if you two start talking always be the one to first say that u have to go or whatever dont let him leave u because trust me if you leave him first it will leave him wanting more. also maybe he likes someone else. dont try to start a relationship before u two are even friends or it wont work out. do not send him notes everyday he will find it annoying. matter in fact if i were i would completely stop sending him notes at all. good luck.
2007-01-21 14:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sending him a note every day will definitely push him further away. People hate to be pestered like that; have you ever had anyone who liked you and came on too strong? It's very off-putting. If normal flirting isn't enough encouragement, he's just not interested and the last thing that will make him interested is pursuing him aggressively. Acting casual and as if you don't care is far more likely to make you more interesting in his eyes, if anything will.
2007-01-23 11:31:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you're leaving anonymous notes, most guys will respond to the FIRST note, if at all interested.
And if you're leaving anonymous notes, it's freaky. Just stop that.
It's not sexy to act intimidated by writing notes from a distance ... It's also not sexy to look intimidatING by writing notes from a distance LOL. It really does look desperate.
Stop trying to hunt the man down. If all your notes have been anonymous and you want to see what mature dating looks like, walk up to him and ask him out. If he says no and you keep persisting, you're a little freak machine :O
2007-01-21 14:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by acrobatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just back off a little bit. I am exactly like you so I am positive I know the way that you think. Alright, stop the notes for a while because I tried that a few times and each time it backfired. Just observe and see what HE does, how HE reacts to you. It will svae you much pain if he doesn't like you.
2007-01-21 14:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by Walking Contradiction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sending notes to a guy is something one does in elementary or junior highschool. No guy likes it. The "tingly" feeling he has for you is how the hell is he going to get you out of his life. He isn't shy, he just is NOT interested in you. Leave him alone and focus your attentions somewhere else...like focusing on growing up because you are obviously far to immature to have anytype of relationship with any guy.
2007-01-21 14:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I am determined to get this guy."
Ok, HONESTLY I have to say that does sound stalker ish. Be careful, if you've never talked to him, I don't think it is love, but on the other hand lust? I highly reccommend you to go and have a talk to him, and then possibly a lovely relationship can develop from there. Get to know him before you do anything dramatic.
2007-01-21 14:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool it. You'll look desperate. He'll run. If he likes you, he'll want to pursue you a bit. If you do all the work, it will backfire. Don't act like a lovesick puppy or a teenager.
2007-01-21 14:28:50 · answer #8 · answered by noitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should stop with the notes
2007-01-21 14:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by BABi B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't write all of those notes. okay, if he's gonna treat you like dirt then screw him! you can do way better, try talking to people, not writing to them.
2007-01-21 14:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by Samantha Marie <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋