Well there's this guy i like and he's really smart. he is the captain of mostly every sport for guys. Also, he is my cousins best friend. How can I get him to like me? We're already close but I want it to be more than that
2007-01-21 14:47:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be eager to listen.
There is nothing that is more attractive to a guy than someone who wants to hear what he has to say. Not a "dumb blonde" type of listening with gushing about how smart he is. He already knows that.
Be well read and familiar with the topics that interest him. It's not a contest of who knows more, but be able to ask intelligent questions as though you have read SOMETHING about the subject.
2007-01-21 14:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are easy. All you have to do is talk to him. If you are already close then you are already talking to him so you'll have to kick it up a notch by having "the talk" about your feelings. To be honest, most guys are friends with girls because they hope that one day it will turn into something more serious so I doubt you'll have anything to worry about. But, guys just care about four things - 1. Girls, 2. Sports. 3. Beer. 4. Girls. Oh, I already mentioned girls. Oh well, it counts twice. So, I think you'll be fine. Don't over analyze it. Just be yourself and see what happens. If you don't take a chance then you will never know.
2007-01-21 22:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by achristian520 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force someone to like you if the feeling isn't mutual. All you can do is be yourself, and be nice. If you're already close, you should let him take the initiative and make the move on YOU. That way, you'll be sure of how he feels.
In my opinion, the best thing you can do to make a guy notice you is to date someone else. Believe me... every guy wants what they can't have!
2007-01-21 22:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by Mandy P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since your cousin is his best friend then maybe he can put in a good word for you. Or you could just ask him out to the movies and then maybe ask him if he likes you more than a friend if he says he just wants to remain friends then you can say oh thats cool, that way you won't get embarrassad if he rejects you. Good luck I hope it works out.
2007-01-21 22:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to GET him to like you, then you'll spend all of your energy doing just that. Even if you do end up dating him, your dates will be miserable because you're constantly worried about pleasing him. Try just being yourself. If it was meant to be, he'll end up liking you. If not then you would have been miserable as a couple anyway.
2007-01-21 22:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by Daniel A: Zionist Pig 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first ask your cousin if you should go out with this guy, then give this guy a letter, tell him how you feel about him, also tell him to circle the yes or no if he wan,t to be your boyfriend.
2007-01-21 22:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'll either be impressed or not. Its a waste of time trying to convince him otherwise. Show signs your interested in more.
2007-01-21 22:51:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make someone like you, stop trying to make him like you and just be friends, get to know him more, the beginning of love starts with a friendship.
2007-01-21 22:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by Calebs Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you want him to notice your pyshical attributes, then you know what to do. Show a little skin, do the whole "slut" thing.
You want to IMPRESS him, be yourself and hope he sees something interesting...
2007-01-21 22:51:51 · answer #9 · answered by Leah~Ariana is due Oct. 09~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him you're interested. Compliment him. Take some initiative and call him. Act interested in what he's interested in.
2007-01-21 22:50:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋