I was dating a guy for 3 years off and on. He was verbally abusive and once physically abusive. He would go off and over exaggerate issues. I learned it's about power and control. I broke up for the upteenth time. I still love him and miss the good parts of him, but I know I am powerless to change him. He told me over and over again that he wouldn't change and if he went to therapy I would have to pay for it. Sounds like a real jerk huh? But he did have a loving side to him, just didn't manifest itself very well. Now, he's trying to hurt me again by trying to make me jealous. I cannot go back. I am just hurting alot. I don't know how I am going to finally get over him. I pray, I talk to others, but the pain and fear of not finding someone I could get close to is overwhelming! How does one get over it? It's been 5 weeks since break up but 1 week since he last tried to get me to talk to him during which I told him that he destroyed our relationship. He said I was selfish.
2007-01-12
07:49:38
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inhizmightyhandz
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