Arguing and fighting just makes me depressed because we do it all the time. I dont want to leave him, but I just cant stand tweek!!!!!
2007-01-12 07:53:00 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The most loving thing you can do for him is leave him until he's off the junk. It might give him a reason to stop using. But the fact is by staying with him, it doesn't help him get off meth. If anything, you're enabling him. Good luck.
2007-01-12 07:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by iblockidiots 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Anonymously have him arrested and them leave him while he is in jail. That will at least sober him up for a few days. Meth is a hard drug to kick, trust me i've been there, but it is possible; however, he needs to be motivated to do so or he will continue until his body finally gives out from the effects.
2007-01-12 08:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by sethb78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to forbid him to do it, it will just make things worse. Don't argue with him about drugs negative effects, cause he wont hear them. Just show him how sad it makes you when he does it. When you see him do it the next time, just make a really sad face, and go without saying anything. This way you reach his conscience directly without words. And if he really loves you he will understand that by doing meth he hurts you, and sooner or later he will stop.
2007-01-12 08:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by Instant Problemsolver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel for you girl however its best you leave the situation before something dreadful happens. its unfortunate but meth turns people into animals and monsters and unless he gets rid of the habit - which is very hard to do - you might get hurt being around him. physically or emotionally. hopefully if you leave him it might help him open his eyes to see what he stands to lose by continuing his foolish behavior. but dont count on it. meth users are habitually egotistical and introverted and may not even notice until he's clean. good luck
2007-01-12 07:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by bbq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really nothing you can do that does not include fighting or leaving except contact narc anon its a group for people who do drugs .and may know of support groups for you They may be able to offer you ideas or suggestions good luck
http://nar-anon.org/index.html
also be aware if he gets busted you might to
who's house will he burn down,witch time will be the time he is high and kicks the crap out of you " by accident".. who's car will he be driving when he wrecks and kills a kid... How long till he is shooting H, when will the house get raided. Do you want these worries in your life?
2007-01-12 07:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by loveamouse7767 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave weather you want to or not! You can't make him stop, so why would you want to be around him when you can find someone who isn't on drugs??? He has to want to quit, you can't control anyone but yourself! Maybe if you do walk away, he'll see you mean more to him than the drugs, and if not, then you are better off without that in your life!
2007-01-12 07:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by wish I were 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the tweek head it is not worth the trouble it will bring you and your family.
2007-01-12 07:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by Raymond B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all ....drugs is bad....second....you know that it is wrong.
only thing is ....you care and if leaving him to make him understand, then go for it. or else it's going to effect you too. Do whats right...if he doesn't stop. it could leave to more drama then just fighting with one another. Try to get him some help or tell him how you really feel. sooner or later ...it's going to come to one of you leave one another.
2007-01-12 07:59:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices - one very bad and one very good.
The bad choice would be to become a tweaker yourself - but you don't want to do that, since meth is very destructive - it rots your teeth, messes up your mind and will eventually kill you.
The good choice would be to leave your meth addicted boyfriend. Why would you want to keep dating a tweaker anyway???
2007-01-12 07:58:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intervention is the only way...if you stay and allow his behavior then you are facilitating his usage... Lay it on the line...he either gets help...now. Or you will move on with your life because you are not going to let him drag you down into a life of emotional pain...
BE TUFF!!! and follow through.
2007-01-12 08:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋